My Boyfriend Abused me and i dumped him, but ?

Question

My Boyfriend Abused me and i dumped him, but ?

somehow i feel i did the wrong thing by dumping him ! is there something wrong with me ????

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*he slapped me twice and once grabbed me like he was going to kidnap a hostage in front of people and hurted me grabbing my hair and my hand got bruised i had to wear sleeves in the middle of the hot summer. he verbally abused me as well.

i gave him money when he didnt have,i gave him clothes, i gave him love and my heart and he broke it .... plus i didnt get a job cause he didnt want me to work, now im careerless and friendless.... ****!

do u think i need therapy?

many thanks :0)))))))))) god bless all *

~Hurt & confused

Answer 1

i think u need therapy and need to report that to the police because he is a crmimanal 4 abusing you....... u made the right choice now go get a job talk to the police and get a thyripist god bless u  

Answer 2

yes u do ...u need to know there are other women out there who have been throught he same thing...u r on the right track and keep going.. call a domestic abuse hotline and they can help u fromt here..u can get free group counceling at a local domestic abuse center...good luck

Answer 3

Well, dumping him was a good decision...

I dont actually think you need therapy but maybe a counselor will help you...

Answer 4

Yes I think you need therapy.  Don't you think that you deserve to be treated well?????? You could have self-esteem problems and other things going on, see a therapist.  

Answer 5

You have done the right thing! I was abused by my ex boyfriend for nearly 3 years before I left him. I had to start my life from scratch no friends, new place, no job and I had to leave most of my things behind too. I felt exactly how you did, did I do the right thing, should I go back...its been 2 years now I have new friends and a good job and Im happy..it takes time you really cared about this guy and the sad truth is that he didnt care enough back and he abused you and your feelings for him! I did however recieve counselling which helped me out alot. I recommend seeking Domestic Violence counselling! And know that you are a beautiful person who deserves better and should never be treated that way by anyone!!

I hope all works out for you!

Answer 6

you did the right thing by breaking up with him.

nobody should deserve this, i know you probably love him, and gave up a lot for him, and he just hurt you like that, but you cant be in that kind of relationship.  

Answer 7

LIKE I TOLD YOU BEFORE ITS NOT GOOD SEE I HAVENT JUST BEEN SLAPPED IVE BEEN BEAT LIKE FIST HE PUNCH ME YESTERDAY AND NOW MY BOTTOM TOOTH IS LOOSE AND I GOT A KNOT ON MY CHIN HEEL I CAN TAKE A PIC TO SHOW BUT THATS WHERE THE SLAPPING WILL TURN INTO THATS WHAT MY MAN DID TO ME FIRST IS SLAP AND CHOKE BUT THE IT BEGAN TO PUNCH AND STAB ITS BAD OK U DNT WANT TO END UP LIKE THAT OK IM TELLING YOU THE GOD HONEST TRUTH ITS NOT GONNA STOP AND YOU CNT CHANGE THAT ALL YOU CAN DO IS BETTER YOUR SELF IM SURE YOUR A VERY PRETTY YOUNG LADY AND IF ANY WOMAN HAS TO GO THROUGH THAT NEED TO HALL *** AND DNT LOOK BACK IM IN PRISON h**l IF HE WALKS IN THIS ROOM RIGHT NOW AND SEE IM ON DA COMPUTER HE WILL BEAT MY *** AND NO I WNT CALL THE COPS OR PUT HIM IN JAIL IM IN DENIAL AND I DNT WANT TO ADMIT IT BUT IF YOU EVER GOT TO BE SCARED WITH THE PERSON YOUR WITH BEING IN LOVE IS ALWAYS GONNA COME BUT UR LIFE ISNT MAMA IM TELLING YOU THIS OUT OF EXPIERENCE I KNOW WAT IMTALKING BOUT IM IN PRISON I CNT EVEN WALK OUT THE DOOR AND IM ONLY 17 AND EVER SINCE I WAS 13 AND HE WAS 26 OR 27 IV BEEN GETTING BEAT AND ABUSED NOW ITS WORSE YOU WILL HURT ONE TIME BY LEAVING BUT THATS NOTHING COMPARED TO WAT YOU WILL BE HURTING BY STAYING TAKE MY WORD GO FIND SOMETHING TO DO THAT YOU HAVENT DONE IN A WHILE HIT DA CLUB OR FIND SOME FRIENDS TO CHILL WITH TO GET YA MIND OFF OF HIM I WISH I CAN GET OUT ITS HAS GOTTON SO BAD TO WHERE OUR DOOR YOU HAVE TO LOCK AND UNLOCK WITH A KEY AND NOW HE LOCKS ME IN RUN LIKE h**l MAMA DNT LET IT GET THAT FAR TRUST ME  

Answer 8

you shouldnt feel bad for dumping him if he did that to you. you did the right thing