My Boyfriend vs my Baby's daddy?

Question

Well now I need some help... Last night me and my bf were chillin and I got 1 of those funny text messages... I forwarded this one to all the people I thought would think it funny, then mt Baby Daddy text me back with another funny text... I text him back saying only U R Nuts... and then I got back I Know... my BF went nuts he said I was teasing my BD and that I am nothing more then a tease... then he told me he didn't want me talking to my BD if it wasn't kid related ever... I told him to get the F out of my house because I ain't never cheated on him... He left and I ain't heard from him since... What do you think? Was I wrong?

Answer 1

Guys are very territorial, and he feels threatened by your BD, because you do share a child and that's a bond that even with separation can never be broken. By talking to him in a non kid-related way, it made him feel very insecure. However unintentional or innocent it all was, it bothered him. He must have trust issues, so you may have been a bit harsh, but if he doesn't trust you, then maybe he needs to go anyway. You don't wanna tiptoe around him worried you'll fall through the ice. Give him some time to calm down and think things through before you decide if you wanna talk about it. And, I would apologize for over reacting if you really want him back. As well as say to him, you didn't know he would feel so strongly about it. Now that you know, you can avoid this situation again. It's up to you two to work it out or not. It just caught you so off guard that he jumped down your throat about it, and you felt defensive once he accused you of being a tease to your ex. But I personally wouldn't appreciate my man telling me who I could or couldn't talk to. He is your BD after all. You share a child, there is no rule saying you can't talk. As long as it goes no further. Just don't sneak around or he will think you're trying to get back with him. What you say to your BD is ultimately none of his business. I would be upset that he was so nosy about it. It's ur call, girl.

Answer 2

You need to respect your boyfriend by not talking to your baby's father when you are together. Unless it is an emergency. It is good that you have stayed friends with the father.  

Answer 3

No way. Who's tally did he think was going to satisfy you that night, his or the BD on the phone? Please, that guy has jealousy problems and if he feels threatened by some phone jive, then you need to find a well hung and secure man to be your new BF.

Answer 4

Nah, I think he misunderstood the text.

Sit down with him and tell him that although you are going out with him, he still needs to respect that your BD is still a part of your life and always will be. And that when your child grows up, its better that at least his/her parents are still in good speaking conditions.

Tell him that there was nothing going on and that you just got a funny text and sent it to many people, including your BD.

If he doesn't "respect" the fact that your allowed to contact your BD, then dump him. He needs to have some trust that you wouldn't cheat and know how hard it is for when a child grows up and their parents hate each other(which is what your trying not to have happen).

Answer 5

No. If your on friendly terms with your BD then it should be ok. But if you're a flirt then he has liable reason to believe that other things may be going on. You should try and explain to him the situation and then if it go array then leave him alone. Let him be a douche by himself