My Boyfriend went to Ibiza..?

Question

Ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 9 Months & he went to Ibiza on a holiday (which he already booked before we got together) Anyway we both arrived home and he was being really affectionate and loving towards me. And he just kept going on about how he missed me. Anyway we was talking and he told me that he danced with another girl,after asking hm about it he then told me that he had his hands on her hips. But went on to tell me that he never cheated on me and never would. I know it sounds stupid becaude he hasnt actually cheated on me but within our relationship we were just so close and now im having doubts and i just feel like we're falling apart. HELP?

Answer 1

your bound to feel like your having doubts! even though he hasn't cheated on you he still danced with another girl.. which potentially could make you feel like he doesn't want to be with you anymore.. however, it takes guts for him to be able to upfront you about the whole situation.. if he didn't want to be with you anymore why did he decide to come clean and tell you! you should sit him down and talk to him about the whole thing, that's what relationships are all about, talking through each others problems together!

Answer 2

well i think your boyfriend get back at you and told you everything because he has nothing to hide, he told you because he loves you and the reason he is so lovely now that he came back is because he realize how much he loves you and he could never cheat on you..

  

Answer 3

he probably didn't do anything, but to be safe, remember his exact story now and drop it for now, and then ask him in a few months again and see if his story changes

Answer 4

If he was being affectionate and loving towards you, that's always a good sign. Even more if he missed you.

Well, since he was brave and honest to tell the details, that can't be considered cheating.

I see no signs of falling apart. Just be happy with him and know that no Ibiza trip will be near anytime soon which should be more time for the both of you. Good luck to you both.

John

Answer 5

the mere fact that he told ya means he didn do anything.

Answer 6

falling apart because of your doubts or because he changed.

is knowing everything the only way you can feel good about your relationship? if yes well things will end because you will never know.

On the other hand, if he is changing or if you feel like there is much more to the story than mentioned, well it may not be a bad idea to end it afer all.

I think that the best answer you can get is from him... I was in his shoes two years ago but after a good talk everything went  back to normal gradually

good luck

Answer 7

How the h**l are you falling apart when he told you how much he missed you and is being affectionate? GET A GRIP!

Answer 8

Don't be paranoid.  That's the worst thing you can do.  Focus on now and what's good about your relationship.  If you focus on what's bad or what could be bad or what might be bad or what might have been bad you are just stirring up bad stuff.  If you have other reasons to believe that you can't trust him then maybe you need to rethink the relationship.