My Boyfriends texting bothers me. Ive seen that he texts his ex gfs once in awhile...how do you trust?

Question

The worst that I ever saw on his phone was that his exgf sent him pictures of her chest....which he asked to see one night when he was drunk.

Next i saw that his other ex had asked him to come to her town and go out, he answered "and what would i tell my gf?" she then said something mean about me, which he wouldnt tell me.

Now I saw on his phone that the girl who sent him the pictures texted him "are you going out tonight?" I dont think he responded cuz he was with me.

I am 22 so I am wanting more serious relationships. I believe he does as well, actually right now i think he likes me more than I like him. But what do I do about this texting, Ive told him I hate when I see texts from his exs...but they are usually the ones to text him first and then he texts back....what to do?

Answer 1

all lies on u. Leave if u wanna leave. Stay if u wanna stay....  

Answer 2

Any guy that cannot let go of his ex or stop texting them does not sound like he is willing to give your relationship his full attention. That kind of behavior sends up all kinds of red flags, it does not matter if they text him first if he still texts them back then he is still sending the message that that behavior is acceptable. You need to sit down and tell him why you are concerned and how you feel. if he still persists, then you need to figure out if you can deal with that in a boyfriend. If he was really serious about a relationship then he should stop compromising it with his old failed relationships.

Answer 3

Sack him

Men cannot be trusted . Mother nature made us willing to spread our seed at every opportunity.