My Brother Is Smoking Weed.

Question

Right,

People have told me that my brother (16) is on weed, i recently found out that he now smokes about a month ago, no one noticed, but i could smell it, my parents then found out and then he told me himself.

But people are saying he smokes weed as well.

I know its none of my business, but i am generally worried about my brother, i know never to tell my parents, because i would be being a terrible brother by doing that.

But i am generally really worried about my brother...

He knows that i know he smokes tobacco, but he thinks no one knows about the weed.

I am just generally really worried about my brother, i dont know what will happen if he carrys on with it. Im just generally scared for him

Im 14, and I have always looked up to him as a role model but over the past month, when his best friend moved away hes started hanging round with other people.

Im Just generally worried about it, should i confront him? or should i just keep quiet?

Advice Please?

Thankyoou :)

Answer 1

Sometimes in life things get really complicated when you are unable to have solution of the problem. Or the one who provides you with the solution is caught in some sort of drugs.

In my opinion what you can do is to spend as much time as you can with your brother. It is not easy and possible as he is not going to allow you to be close to him because he need to smoke weed.

Increase your relation with him and try to be the best friend to your brother and try to hang out with your brother.

Second thing which you need to do is that you need to call your brothers friends which you just mentioned are gone to some place else. You need to call them and tell them about this that the day they departed your brother started bad company and now he is quite in the weed smoking habit.

As friends are more close ones at this age so might be a possibility that he will listen to his friends and even then if he not willing to leave this habit then no doubt inform your parents right away.

Smoking weed is really very bad habit specially in recent few years the usage of weed has increased at a very large scale.