My Crazy Aunt Wants to Kill My Baby? ?

Question

One of my aunts has been trying to do things to cause my miscarriage ever since i was 3 months pregnant ...

shes jealous because her daughter who is in her 30's has not been able to get pregnant and I did ...

I really like my cousin and have always tried to be her friend but she rejects me and sometimes is just plain mean to me!!

They were spreading rumors about my mom and I right before my baby shower so we decided not to invite them but they showed up anyways and created a big scene and needless to say ruined my baby shower ...

btw they also ruined my wedding, they spread rumors and made faces in the video and pictures...

ANYWAYS ... Now I heard my aunt is desperately trying to find out when I am due Im scared that she will show up at the hospital ... eventhough I can tell the nurses not to let her in I am scared that since her last name is the same as my mothers and they both have weird names that begin with an "M" the nurses wont pay attention and she will be let in ...

I know I am being parinoid but shes really mean and at this point I think shes capable of anything .

What can I do?

Answer 1

Yeah the other answers are right, get a restraining order, you need one.  Better safe than sorry, and I would take a pic of her to the hospital with you and make sure security and the nurses all know that she is not to be let in or anywhere near your baby.  Good luck hun, keep us posted!!

Answer 2

WOW! That is really creepy!

I would let them know at the hospital that you cannot let this woman in! Show them a picture of her, and make it a big deal, so that they know.

Stay far away from her. If you have to call and get a restraining order on her or something. Just make it a point to not let her know thiings about you anymore. For a while do not go to family functions that you know she will be at. It might suck, but it will be worth it. Im sure your family will understand. If you want to have a family get together without her there let your family know...tell them not to say anything.

Answer 3

just  call the cops

or just a restraining order

Answer 4

Get in touch with the police. Bring evidence and get a restraining order. This woman is mad and you need protection.

Also tell her you never ever want to see her again in your life and will call the police every time you even suspects she's in the neighborhood.

Try not to worry too much (which must be hard), the stress is not good for the baby.

Answer 5

Get a restraining order, call the police and see if someone can be with you at all times while you are in the hospital!!!

Answer 6

That's really messed up. I'm sure that as long as you're going to a decent hospital your baby will be protected. They're really really anal about letting just anyone into the maternity ward. Maybe you can request that a nurse come and tell you when you have a visitor so that you can go in the hall and check who it is first before them being let into the maternity ward. And tell anyone else that they need to all first before come to visit you in the hospital so you know when to expect a visitor.  

Answer 7

Get a restraining order - she is obviously imbalanced. Protect yourself and your child. I have never heard of family acting like this! Families are supposed to love and protect - this is crazy!

Do not have any further contact. Get a restraining order and you make sure your doctor understands before you even get to the hospital. Where is the husband/boyfriend in all of this? Isn't he protecting you. My husband would be making sure I was left alone and it would be abundantly clear what the consequenses would be, if that didn't happen.

Hospital can always say, "we can neither confirm nor deny there is a patient here by that name" if someone calls and you tell them no visitors without your consent.

Answer 8

to make your self feel safer get a restraining order then she won't be able to come anywhere near you.

is that your ultrasound pic?

Answer 9

call the cops, get a restraining order

Answer 10

That B*tch is crazy! Get a restraining order.

Answer 11

You could get a restraining order on her, or when you get to the hospital have them put your info private so if she tries to call they won't tell her what room you are in or if you are even at that hospital.

Answer 12

restraining order - for your safety and the babies

id also call a dr, that sounds like a mental illness - no one in their right mind would think like that.

Answer 13

I would say don't take any chances. what a horrible woman she is. my cousin just had a miscarriage but my aunt would never try to do anything to hurt my newborn. Yeah I agree with the others get a restraining order and when you check into the hospitals, specify that you do not what this particular aunt to visit or see your baby at all---and like some1 else said, show a picture to the staff so they all know. state that she is dangerous and has been dangerous b4. The security at hospitals are pretty strict so I'd say dont worry about it.

Answer 14

I agree with everyone on here - Get a restraining order!!  She sounds completly psycho. Maybe use the babies dads last name to get your mom in and if she shows up at the hospital looking for you she will be charged. Good luck, and try not too stress about it too much.

Answer 15

just tell da nurse to let no one in to be in tha safe side=]