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My DENTIST kissed me, "What should I do"?

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I went to see my dentist because my wisdom tooth was bothering me. He told me that he would extract the tooth.

He froze my mouth and I was apprenhensive as to whether or not I would feel the extraction. I asked the dentist "How do I know that I am truly frozen and won't feel the tooth being extracted"?

He then sent his assistant out of the room and kissed me - Not sure if tongue was present as my tongue was frozen.

Please, I do know that he is married and I have no interest in this man at all.

Do I keep my mouth shut and find a new dentist or continue on with seeing him, as he has been my dentist for 5 years.

Any advice would be much appreciated.

Thank you

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  1. Get a new dentist immediatly

    and also get him sued


  2. Well considering that you CANT keep ur mouth shut during a DENTIST  appointment, that is not an option. If that kiss makes him uncomfortable to be around the maybe you should find a new one. Do what's best for you!

  3. You should give him a "slap" to his face!

    You should stop seeing this dentist. Change your dentist.

  4. Either your trolling, or very young and naive. I will give you my advice to the later but I hope your just trolling.

    If your dentist did this, then yes, that’s very inappropriate and illegal. Not only should you stop seeing this dentist immediately, but you should tell your parents and goto the police. Write down all the details of what happened on a piece of paper and call a attorney.

  5. Find a knew dentist .You could also report him cause that just isen't right.

    Are you a minor?

    Either way ..............FIND A KNEW DENTIST...because he has no buisness kissing you.

  6. You were groggy from my medication

    I did not kiss you, but confess I did think about it

    Look, come by at no charge

    I will be available to discuss this farther tonite at 8

    Come around back of my office and knock twice and then 3 times

    Do you prefer Pepsi or Coke?

  7. I am assuming you are in high school.  If so tell your parents.  That is crazy!  I don't know what you can do since he sent his assistant out. Yikes.

  8. omgh! i would switch dentists.

  9. I'm sorry but just because he has been your dentist for 5 years after what he did u shouldn't even be thinking of going back... I think you should report him because if he did that and is married you don't know what he is capable of.

  10. tell him that like ur not interested or that u have a bf or by a fake/real ring and say im engaged or if ur married say ur married 1 kiss isnt worth the work to change?

  11. contact the better business bureau - http://us.bbb.org/WWWRoot/SitePage.aspx?...

    and your local police department, see if someone will put your story on the news, whatever to get him fired before he goes further...if your under 18 please tell your parents

  12. I think that you should speak up about it.  If he did it to you then he's doing to other people.

  13. Report this. These things should not happen in society and need to be filed with the town. He may do this with all his female   patients.

    Report this, TwinTipZ

  14. um... he is married so he is a pig and don't let him get the wrong idea by continuing to see him, find a new dentist maybe a female dentist:)

  15. everyone is right. switch dentists immediately. if he has a superior, report the behavior to him/her right away. you can't trust someone with your mouth if they're gonna hit on you the whole way through.

  16. FIND A NEW DENTIST. That would be consider sexual abuse because he did not have your consent. He sent the assisstant out of the room, so he obviously knew what he was doing was wrong. I have had the same dentist for 12 years and if he ever kissed me I would find a new dentist!

  17. WOW Holly c**p you need to tell someone over him or in his office! Call the sec. and talk to her about having your records tranfered immideiately and why!! Don't even go back to that office it's not worth more bad memories. The yellow pages can help with finding a lawyer or just file a complait against him at the Sheriff's Office. Get a new dentist and tell someone before it happenes to a young girl.

  18. I can't see how there is any other answer than to find another dentist because what he did was wrong.

  19. umm yea, go to another location and get a new dentist and definatly tell someone, like the police, whos not to say he is doing this to other people and they keep there mouth shut cuz there scared, u definalty should call the police or something.

  20. Dental work is expensive, hold him for ransom or sue him and settle out of court for the cost of your dental work.

  21. ...find a new dentist this one's a perv actually depending on how old you are you could sue him bwahahaha

  22. Well if he's like a creep=o guy, i personally think you should tell somebody about it.

    and if you don't have the guts like me, just move dentist.

    It is very easy to get a new one.

  23. REPORT HIM!!

    go to the web site of your state in CA its COMDA and you can do that, he won't know it was you. but for sure don't go back to him! if he did that to you who know what he's done to others!!! or kids!!!

    people like that mess up the oath of helping others that they all take....

  24. wellif nothing else quit going there. thats rediculous. he could go to jail for that if you'd be willing to press charges.

    you should tell your mom and never go back to him

  25. File a harassment suit. Definately not acceptable for any health proffesional to act this way. If you don't want the drama never go there again who knows what else he might have on his mind.

  26. UH...find a new dentist, press charges, make sure they suspend whatever license he has. HE HAD NO RIGHT!!

    See a therapist.

  27. My questions is, what is he going to do to you if you have to be put under an anesthetic?  That is totally freaky, unprofessional and criminal!  There was just a movie on about this.  It was based a true story about a woman who was put under an anesthetic by her dentist and he raped her while she was under, she then became pregnant.  And then the rest of the movie was about her trying to prove the sexual assault.  Do something about this!  But first don't ever go back to the perv again!!

  28. Holy c**p..you could report him for that. That is very inappropriate and unprofessional behavior. Not very 'wise' on his part.

  29. You should get a new dentist and never see him again! This could get more serious and he has no business kissing you.

  30. You can call your local police department and report this. You are not the first girl he has done this too, and he will continue to abuse you and other girls because they are afraid to report him. Please call your local police department and report this as soon as possible!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  31. yes you should find another dentist

    he is suppose to be a professional and carry himself that way

    that was inapproriate.

    Its ok you have been to him for five years search for someone else

    what will you do if the next treatment require you be put to sleep?

    you should feel comfortable with your dentist

    I would have filed charges against him

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