My Ex And My Best Friend?

Question

My ex and I broke up a little over a month ago, and for most of this past month he's been all nice and sweet to me, trying to get me to go back out with him. My friend, who I though was helping me out, kept reminding me of how he had hurt me and not to listen to him, so I didn't and we didn't go back out. But a few days ago she flat out told him she liked him and if he liked her she thought they should go out. And then he told me and wanted my advice.

I know that I broke up with HIM and I shouldn't be sensitive to that since I had my chances to get back with him, but the truth is I don't think I'm over him, not enough for my best friend to go out with him anyway...

But yesterday he officially asked her out and she said she had to think about it. She does this a lot, maybe without meaning to, but she leads guys on. I don't want my ex hurt, and I think she was just messing with his head, but once i confronted her she told me it was none of my business who she or my ex dated and she finally told him yes. He's happy and I'm glad he is, but it hurts when she talks about him and what he says to her and she won't stop.

Should I talk to her again?

And if I should, what do I say.

P.S. Sorry it's so long, thanks for reading it.

Answer 1

It's an unwritten girlfriend rule that we don't date each others ex's...no matter who broke up with who.

She's a bytch.  I think she only said yes to p**s u off anyway.  I would tell her and him not to talk to me about each other and if she can't respect that F her and don't talk to her.  That's so disrespectful and not something a friend does.

Answer 2

Sorry, but she sounds like a total *****.  Why would you want a friend like that?

Answer 3

sounds like she was waiting in the wings for him. best friends never date each other's exes. it's an unwritten rule. she is not your friend.

Answer 4

:O!!

i have the same problem. just cuss her oout(: jk

if she was a real friend she wouldnt have done that to you. what a loser she is!

Answer 5

'l;l';l';l;'l;''l;'l;

Answer 6

Uhh.. your friend is comepletely out of line... Doesnt sound like she's as good of a friend as you thought she was.  

Answer 7

dont talk to her aigan.

that TOTALLY goes again the rules of friendship.

maybe you should explain them to her?

any true friend would respect the rules.

sorry, megan.

Answer 8

Just tell her that you are happy that she and him are both happy but that you don't want to hear every single detail!

Looks like to me that she kept reminding you how he hurt you , to get him for herself...

But if she dont stop, tell her that you can't be her friend if she can't stop talking bout them together.

Answer 9

Your friends are loosers. You need new ones.

Answer 10

the same EXACT thing happened to me. Except i wasn't as nice as you and just kind of started ignoring my best friend/ ex.  Well it hurt,but i turned to my other friends who helped me realize that both my ex bf and bff were jerks to do that. They ended up breaking up like a week later because she was just a rebound to him. She knows that she was an *** for what she did an di guess she regrets it. I don't talk to either of them anymore with no regrets :)

Answer 11

I never thought that I would ever give this kind of advise out but here goes:  Tell your friend to go f**k herself and the horse she rode in on!!!



Oh yeah, and look her straight in the eye while you say it.  

Answer 12

Never date a friends ex. It draws conflict to you, your ex and your friend. Second if you do talk to her again then tell her not to talk about it with you.In which she isn't your best friend if she went behind your back and asked him out.  I would drop her.

Answer 13

That is a tough one! I would definately talk to her about it,let her know you realize she wants to share what happens in her life with you but that is one thing that sometimes hurt to hear about and you would prefer to talk about something else.

Answer 14

It is never a good idea for friends to date friends exes. If she insists on dating your ex, then she isn't truly your friend.  

Answer 15

h hard life to have like that kind of a friend , use your head to solve this ...for me i dont have friend like that