My Ex- Boyfriend is back home after 8 years and he hates me so much how can I make things better

Question

I don't know how to say this but when I was 14 upto 16 this boy like me alot and I was his first love. I asked him out and I wouldn't let him kiss me or nothing like them and I only was taking the P**** out of him and he never knew tell he work it out . And for 2 years everday I stood out of his home kissing guys to hurt him and it work and I got him out off his home and school for good. I also told him he smells and things like that and he got grease hair and I called his family names and things like that . I know I done wrong but now we both 24 he did come back near his old home for flash backs and I was there. He looked into my eyes and said " I don't dislike you I hate you " and said "I have nightmares cause of you and I hate you and I don't trust you" and he said "when I was here I was scare dam you " scare to be hurt by you I hate you " but you couldn't see that" what should I say to him he had tears when he was saying this and looked chock up what should I say to him he hates me

Answer 1

i think u should hang your head in shame when u see him and walk the other way............leave him alone and live with the guilt

Answer 2

sounds like he still feels something but u hurt him soooooo bad that he's sooooo afraid of getting back with u that he's trying to convince u and him self that he hates u  cause he's that gun shy of u now after what and how u did him and i'd say he hates  himself more for still caring about u. sounds like u got alot of *** kissing to do and should do

Answer 3

If your first language is English I don't understand why he didn't just call you illiterate and laugh at you.

If English isn't your first language - why do care what he thinks about you? If he's so hurt by what you did we can just hope that Karma will return that kind of hurt upon you.

Answer 4

Im not going ot comment on the much.

You were willing to spend 2 years ******* his life up. Spreading lies and being nasty. I wonder how many of those guys you kissed where he could see - did things to him on your behalf acting in your place to help you in your quest of cruelty.

Years of torment is not quick forgot.

How can fix it ... well I really dont know. How could you be convinced some like that has changed? Really sit down, and imagine - imagine your life had gone has his - this is something that will take more tha a minute to do - imagine what happened to him as though it happened to you. Imagine having some one going through your life for a few years trying to be your personal nightmare and ruin everything - because they get pleasure from it. Now when your done and you can see it from wher e he is- what would it take to make you see that person as sorry for it?

Answer 5

8 years is too much gap.

Answer 6

Stay away from him.