My Ex-bestfriend is a FREAK!

Question

Now I had this "so called" friend, who said:

Come to my school, youll have a great time.

Come into my school house - its the best.

Come into my pastrol group.

After a few unpleasent actions made from this kid after 2 years. I told him, that their is no FRIENDSHIP anymore and walked away.

After all of this he has continued to have confrontations with me.

1. He spread rumors about me and my family to my friends to try and get them off my side.

2. Joined 2 other boys into making my life into a misery.

3. Trys to talk to people when I am having a conversation with them.

This kid is the biggest freak ever. It just amazes me that everyone doesnt see through him. Its like Im the only one that does.

He did all of these things because he didnt like me doing well at his school. - which is very very creapy!

I need some help.

Answer 1

No, you're doing fine.

Any dealings you have with him should be in public, with a witness, if at all possible.

Don't call him names, be as polite as possible, simply say you have no interest in speaking with him........ever.

If he asks why, ask him to please respect your desire, and that answering his question would conflict with your stated desire of not speaking to him.

Walk away and ignore any taunts.   The situation will resolve itself fairly quickly, especially if whoever is with you repeats what you've asked.

What he's said about you isn't true, (is it?), so when it comes to light that he's lying, he'll be further discredited.

What other people think of him, (or you, for that matter), is much less important than what you think of yourself

Luck

Answer 2

This ex-friend of yours acts more like an ex-girlfriend. (Sorry to have said it so.)

How did you end the friendship? Is he very bitter about it. Can you have one last conversation with him and discuss this like grown ups?  

Answer 3

im sorryyy to hearr thatt =(

but here are some options:

1)i would go to your school counseler. theyre great =)

2)ask your parents what to do

3)punch him

hope this helpss :)

Answer 4

what do you need help with? this isnt even a question...we get that your friend is a freak...

Answer 5

hey what grade are you going in to?

that happened to me too!

its like you ask your other friends what they think of him/her

and their all like"oh he/she is so sweet and funny!"

and im just like how?????

any way

1. ask your classmates

be like "hey did you hear a rumor about me..." then tell him/her to tell everyone that IT IS NOT TRUE :)

2. IGNORE THEM they are nothing to you just do whatever you do quetly

like if you sat down to eat lunch and they put mustard on the chair ( sorry i dont have imagination) and then you sit on it...just get up..be like " eww who did that?" then just take a friend and go te the bath room to clean it up

DONT EVEN LOOK AT THEM EVEN IF YOU KNOW THAT THEY DID IT AND THEY ARE LAUGHING AT OYU

pretend they are not there at alll

3. revenge may feel good but if the other person does hate you (most likeluy)

and will probably do anything to get you in trouble, so instead..

just whenever he/she comes over and starts talking to one of your friends while you were in the middle of telling them a story.....then

be bold a hold up your index finger and be like " hold on! i'm not done with my story...be patient!" and finish whatever you were saying

after your done, just say" okay, go ahead"

then he/she might start to not hate you anymore :)

hope that helped :)

Answer 6

i would just ignore it. as hard as it may be, unless u want to start sumthing, thats all you really can do.

just dont let him get to you and eventually he will get tired and bored w/ it and stop. but if u let him tell that it bugs u, he will keep on and on.

another sugestion...

DONT PUNCH HIM LYK ANSWER PLEASE SAID!!!

probly one of the worst things u can do!

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Answer 7

Ignore him and you'll find a group you fit into.  

Answer 8

ooo im sooo sorry to hear that =(    ......   TRANSFER talk to ur parents about it  

Answer 9

get on the school paper and start stuff about him too! or like talk to the councelor.. talk to the principal and ask for him too have an assembly that you would like to speak in then tell the whole school how this stuff that he is saying are stupid rumors and stuff but if i were you i would fight back and win! lol

Answer 10

YOU dont need help. HE does..

tell your counselor that he has problems and he makes your life miserable at school & it's affecting you.

(: