My Ex just sent me a text... Help?

Question

Today's my birethday and my ex just sent me a text saying Happy Birthday. We're not rly on speaking terms becus he cheated on me and broke my heart but it seems like he wants to be friends. i don't mind if we become friends again becus i care about him a lot...i just don't know what to say in reply to his text.. shud i be friendly or not?

Answer 1

be friendly and say thank you

Answer 2

I would send a text that said thank you for thinking of me. and leave it at that.  

Answer 3

Just say "Thank you" and let it go at that.

Regards,

Dan

Answer 4

Just say thank you

Answer 5

write "thanks..."

dont forget the dotdot.. at the end of thanks

so its more of a "thanks um why are you talking to me" then a "thanks me and you are cool"  

Answer 6

All this heartbreak has obviously affected your spelling

Answer 7

It totally depends on you. If you want to be his friend and you think you are ready for it, go ahead and text him back. If you don't think you can emotionally handle it, then don't. He knows it was a c**p shoot texting you in the first place, and that you may not reply. Don't feel obligated to do one thing or another. Just make sure that whatever you do, you will be able to handle.

Answer 8

I called my ex on her birthday we're not really on speaking terms either. I didn't get **** from her on my birthday though. I didn't cheat on her we just ended it on bad terms. I would recommend ignoring him if you still have feelings for him though because you'll end up falling for him again, and he will probably cheat on you again.

Oh, and happy birthday (:

Answer 9

Ignore it, he is just trying to lure you back into the relationship. He is going to break your heart again, and it's so not worth it. Ex boyfriends/girlfriends can't be "normal" friends once they have had a relationship together.  

Answer 10

Say Thanks,

That should be friendly enough. If he reply back post another question of what he said.

Answer 11

If you care about him then maybe you should be friendly and become friends, if it was me I would not be friends after him doing something like that  but it depends how you feel =)

Good luck  

Answer 12

he might change so say ok he might have problem but if u know that he didn't change tell him to be a better guy.

Answer 13

If he broke your heart once, are you prepared for it to happen a second time. Just thank him for the card and play it very cool.

Answer 14

I personally would just ignore it if he broke my heart and cheated on me, but if your ok with being friends with him, and really ok with it, then just text him back saying thanks. or in a couple of days text him and say thanks for the birthday text.

Answer 15

happy birthday!!! i went through the same thing girlfriend cheated, told me happy birthday and i said thanks. well just do what you want and it's ok to be nice just don't let him use you or something. just enjoy your birthday and chill with friends :-)

Answer 16

First....... You need to learn to spell. Second, he's STILL cheating on you with your sister!

Answer 17

sure if u think e has changed and he wont be mean to u go 4 it

Answer 18

Do what you want to do. If you want to be his friend and be polite to him then reply sayin thanks but if you cant forgive him for cheating then just ignore the text.

Answer 19

says thanks

Answer 20

Ummm , Say Thanks?

xoxo