My Fiance is ignoring me this days.

Question

Me and my Fiance are engaged. We live in different states, so we cannot meet. We just talk on phone. This days he is ignoring me for some reason, even i dont know. when ever i try to explain him anything about our relationship, he just says "OK", and i really get upset when he says OK and nothing else. I DONT KNOW HOW TO GET ATTENTION FROm HIM. I know he loves me a lot, but i think he is upset with me.Please Please Please dont advice me to leave him. I love him a lot.Please advice me.

Answer 1

maybe you should fly and go see him. How do you know you love him if you only talk on the phone?

Answer 2

Sounds like you've been had.  Forget him and move on.  You'll meet someone in your own hometown, who does love you, and respects you and shows you attention and affection.  You deserve that much.  You want advise, that's it.  That's the truth.  You just don't want to see it or face it, but that guy isn't in love with you.  Stop fooling yourself.  Move one.  

Answer 3

See, He maybe stressed out thinking about marriage cuz though being a girl, i would freak out too but that doesn't mean i don't love my guy. So i guess he loves you but is trying to calm himself down. So first avoid talking about your relationship or marriage, and start being the kind of girl he fell for, you know like fearless or fun loving, whatever type your were of. Try to remember previous conversations, what was the gist of those conversations?

If this doesn't work then talk to him. Ask him whats bothering him. He may have some tension regarding his work or something.  Be gentle while talking to him.

You may also want to go to meet him while you clear this out, maybe for a day or half a day (but make sure he will be free at that time). Plan something nice like lunch and then a walk in the park or anything he loves, while you talk to him.

Above all Let him know that you care for him. If he really has tensions he will love you for being with him.    

Anyways best of luck!

Hope thing are ok between you both.  

Answer 4

don't marry him...

Answer 5

Distance makes everything a bit more difficult.  It may not be him ignoring you but just being busy!  

Answer 6

have you EVER met him?

Answer 7

Have You Ever Met Him?

To Be Totally Honest Long Distance Relationships RARELY Ever Work Out.

If He Is Ignoring You Then Maybe He Is Finding Keeping A Relationship Alive Over The Phone Or By eMail, etc Just Isn't Working.

If You Have ANY Doubts About Marrying Him, Then Maybe You Shouldn't.

I Know It's Not What You Want To Hear, But Maybe It's The Truth.

Do You Honestly Want To Have A Marriage With Someone Who Ignores You? And Engagement Is What A Lot Of People Call "The Honeymoon Period". You'll Only Be Hurting Yourself If You Keep Up A Relationship Like This.

Answer 8

Hi, I say you should go to his state and surprise him. Then make love all night and see if that changes anything... if not you can do SOOO much better!!!! good luck

Answer 9

Maybe he's cheating on you.