My Friend Has A Secret That She Will Only Share With Me...

Question

You see, she has a really big secret that she wants to let free to everybody. She doesn't want me to tell anybody, and she doesn't want to tell anybody herself, because she is afraid they might make fun of her. She's scared to tell everyone also because the people who dislike her will spread the rumor really fast to people who she doesn't want to hear the secret. She is so scared, she hasn't even told her mom yet. What should she do?

Answer 1

if is a secret that nobody would find out unless one of you tell, then she has no problem.  If it is something that people will eventually discover (pregnancy) then I would suggest she tell it herself and take the gossip factor away.

Answer 2

Why does this secret have to be shared with anyone but you or her mom? There are things that not every one should have the privilege of knowing about some one. Ya just have to keep some things small and only share with those you can trust. Learn this lesson as early as possible in life that very little should really be shared with the world.