Ok so this is a long story so I am gonna make it as easy as possible. I met this girl in Sept 2007 when college started. We became really good friends and started to hang out alot. Then in like december b4 the 1st semester was going to end, I told her I had feelings for her. She didnt like me back, so I said its ok I hope we still stay friends and I will always respect her decision and nvr impose anything on her. So we pretty much didnt talk over a month long winter break from dec - jan. Then when college started again 2nd semester, it was a little awkward at 1st but then we started to hang out again. But then like after a month or so, she became weird again and started to treat me differently ( rudely). Like everytime I asked her to hang out she would make a fake excuse and avoid everything. Like she would say shes busy and I'd catch her just sitting doing nothing goofing off. So I didnt say anything to her during 2nd semester and I kept taking all her no's and stayed around her. then came summer. So then over summer I asked her again if she wants to hang out. And I always asked her, she nvr asked me...but so she agreed to hang out a couple of times...but it was like she was totally different with me than she was with others...she acted completely dead around me. With outhers she was so lively and enthusiastic. So I called her once and talked to her and asked her why she treats me differenly, and she thought I still liked her..so i told her i dont. She got ok for a couple days and then went back to being weird again, so I made sure again that she didnt feel uncomfortable and i tried talking to her again. After that we just didnt talk for a while. So I thought I have come this far and I shouldnt give up now and maybe try to make this frndship work. So I called her to hang out....and the way she said no to me was just very rude and she really just treated me like dirt. So I called her and told her i felt hurt. I said that she treats me differently, and despite her treating me rudely for 2nd semester on i stayed frnds with her because her frndship means a lot to me. I told her I just hope we can be good friends and that I care a lot for her. And to my polite message and for being honest, she called me back and talked to me really nastily saying "i am annoying, shes tired of hearing all this, and she just wants to enjoy her summer." I mean I was so polite when I talked to her, and I even said if she is uncomfortable with me , she can just tell me honestly, but instead she totally flipped out on me and now she ignores me totally. I really dont know what to do, I really thought she was a great person.
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