My GF is mangalik by birth, so may It effect the marriage life, may i go for marriage or not??

Question

My GF is mangalik by birth, so may It effect the marriage life, may i go for marriage or not??

Answer 1

don't marry her

Answer 2

do you mean manglik?

you may believe that it is a problem, and which case it will then become one.  It's called a self-fulfilling prophecy.  You believe it so much you make it come true.

However, in many many cultures, people don't even know what it is, or if they are/are not one, and have long happy marriages.

So...I think that your chances of having a happy marriage are not tied to astrology - but you need to convince yourself of that first.

Answer 3

if you truly loved her, you wouldnt ask this question.

Answer 4

("mongalik"? "mongoloid"? is an outdated term.) Do you mean Down's Syndrome, perhaps. Down's Syndrome is present at birth.

If so, I believe that there are marriages, but conditions may apply.  

Maybe parent/guardian permission.

The two of you should make a doctor visit to discuss genetic issues as well.

Answer 5

Find out how it will affect (effect?) your marriage and decide if you are willing to live with that. Don't ever expect her to change, you have to decide wether or not you are willing to live like that and stick to your decision.

Answer 6

1) This is the test of your Love, marry her if you love her.

2) Manglik stuff is all nonsense,

All religions have their Plus & Minus, Love is divine

Why cant all of us just follow the positive part of our religions.

What is the need to discriminate others based on religion/race/gender and now astrology?

Answer 7

You are clearly a superstitious person, and this is clearly a distressing issue for you. Your girlfriend deserves someone who will not be bothered by superstitions.  Do her a favor and leave her free to marry someone who doesn't care when she was born.

Answer 8

Before falling in love you should have verified your manglik sort of things. What is important for you, both of you staying together or avoiding marriage for a superstition so that you marry someone else and she to someone, and both staying unhappily thereafter

Answer 9

Are you mangalik also? Then it will cancel out.

If so firmly believe in this system, you should check before calling anyone your girlfriend. It is not fair to others. If you have such pressures from the fact your family believes, you should talk to the girl before you go further. This will grant her freedom to make her decision whether to proceed with a person whose "confidence in relationships" are also influenced by the whole family.

I am surprised that you are asking this question to general audience, some may not be aware of the concept or would nto believe in it.

Talk to the girl openly, especially your doubts, let her be the part of the decision. I would recommend let her go. Next time check out all these things before falling for someone.

Answer 10

if she is human...then go for it if you are also human.

Answer 11

yes dont look at all that its stupid.....its ur life and hu ur going to be happy with....ok.

Answer 12

u jerk!

i cant believe that such guys do exist anymore.