My husband and I have been married for almost 2years and been together for 3. Exactly one month ago we lost our daughter, she was still born. We have no kids together. We both are 22, so we are kind young to be married in this generation. Lately he has been sleeping with his phone in his pocket and he also has a security lock on it, he doesn't admit he sleeps with his phone is his pocket but he does, and he says he has a lock on it because he's tired of me going through his phone. So one day while he was at work i got online and checked his call logs. There were repeated numbers in there from 1,2,3,5,6 o'clock in the morning and text messages allllllllllll DAY!! Back and forth to each other. So I called the numbers and a female picked up the phone saying that her brother uses her phone to talk to my husband about music, my husband makes music and that my husband makes music for her brother, I did not believe her. I could tell she was lying. If my husband and her brother were talking like that too each other then they really have a secret life together. She immediately called my husband and he says he's not coming home because he's tired of me acting like the fbi. He denied talking to the female. I immediately called customer care and had all his calls fowarded over to my cell phone. The girl kept callin him and I would answer and tell her to stop calling my husband. She would just hang up. I cussed my husband out really bad. He got off work and moved ALL of his things out of the house and was staying at a friends house. By the next night the call fowarding feature was turned off and I checked the call log again and the same number was on there 2 o'clock in the morning for 141 mins, and the following day a repeated number but from a different state, so I called that number and I asked the girl did she know my husband and I told her I was his wife and she didnt belive me when I told her we were married but she said she knew about me and she told me that she know where I live and and she know about me losing the baby and that they have been having s*x and everything, she just knew too much info. So we were arguing back and forth. My husband calls me telling me that I'm making a big mistake and that I messed up and taking everything all wrong and that he admits talking to her on the phone as friends only tellin her all his problems. He tries to work it out with me but i wasnt having it and then he decides he wants to visit his dad for a week because he's sick and I invited myself to go and he tells me no we both need to clear our head and everything will be ok when he gets back, i told him if he leaves he will never hear from me again. He doesnt believe me... But i'm serious and he keeps calling me telling me he's sorry and that he loves me and everything will be ok and to trust him. He has hurt me soooooooooo bad i cant explain. I just lost our baby and i really needed him and he has done this BullSh*t to me. Now I feel embarresed because sooner or later I have to explain to friends and family we are seperated and some people dont know that we lost our daughter yet, i just feel so embarresed. What should I do??? Things are different when your married than from a bf/gf relationship, is this something that all marriages go through??? Should I give it all up? Please help
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