My Husband is having a problem...?

Question

My Husband, who is 55, is having a problem. When we make love, he is like the Energizer Bunny...he keeps going and going but he doesn't ejaculate. This is a problem because we want a baby. Now, he does have ED, which the family doctor seemed to think was due to a BP med he was on. The doctor took him off the med, and he takes Cialis, which works. After taking Cialis he has no problem getting an erection. In fact, the Cialis allows him to get erections for up to three days after he takes it.

But the only way he seems to o****m is when either himself or I am masturbating him by hand. And a lot of times we have to tickle/massage his perineum also. He HAS orgasmed while having intercourse with me before, so I am really confused why he isn't able to now. I know that he puts a lot of pressure on himself to come and it frustrates him and I try to get him to relax.

Are there any solutions to this? I personally believe it is a problem because he has not had a whole lot of sexual experience prior to me therefore he is used to masturbation. And it does seem to get better if we wait for a long time in between intercourse. But that doesn't help with babymaking, since we need to try every other day. I should add that his testosterone level was checked by the family doctor and that came back as normal! What to do?

Answer 1

Maybe you all are just trying a little too hard.  Take things easy & let nature run it's course.  If you relax & enjoy your time together more - it should work out to your advantage soon.

Answer 2

Have him try keeping his p***s right at the vaginal opening and giving the head a lot of contact with the labial folds and pubic hairs- as he continuously penetrates and then and pulls out. It sounds like that is just what it needs to me. When he gets to the point of o****m, then and only then at that moment, have him thrust it fully into the v****a.

Answer 3

Try the Tiger Jump  it never fails

Answer 4

let him masturbste while wacting u when he is about to come let him put it in your v****a and finish the job

Answer 5

You might have to take the bull by the horns on this one. try different postions. Such as you on top, reverse cow girl, doggy, and there is lots of others that you two can just make up or look them up on the net.

You never said how old you are he is 55 an on meds. Some men can just last a long time and if he is used to his own hand then that does add to the situation some. Get him real close and then jump on for the final ride it might take a few times. If all else falls then obtain a sample take it into the Doc and have them inseamnate you. it will be his sperm and all. If that is costly then try an adopted. Nothing says you still can not make love during or after.

After doing some more reading, sounds as if you have a situation that needs lots of work to which he has none right now I take it. Living with his folks and only have his own hand not many women and like you said not much learning in the s*x department. You might have to educated him on the female body. Show him what you like if you have not already. Talk to him let him play with those parts that really get him going. O yes there is the 69 try that one I could never last more than a few with that one. Have him give you a rub down with baby oil and when he is doing the front side give him a few strokes. Wife used to really love them and I enjoyed given them. Just wish I could now. It is pittfull that you are in this state of disspare in reguards to your s*x life