My Husband wants me to take a polygraph. Do I take it or leave his a$?

Question

My husband thinks I cheated on him because his brother who lived with us for a while said I did. Well. . . I didn't Should I take the polygraph or should I leave his sorry behind for not trusting me. Oh BTW when we were dating he cheated on me.

Answer 1

Where would you take it? Your HB has doubt...somebody is lying to him and he wants to know who. If you are not lying, then you can set his mind at ease. If his brother is lying...he's toast. Take Care

Answer 2

TAKE THE TEST. prove him wrong. maybe he needs to take a test every month for ten years because if he cannot trust you then how can you ever trust him?

Answer 3

No matter what you do he will always believe his brother. It's obvious. You shouldn't take it and eventually you will leave because he is going to cheat on you again and now he has a reason to so he thinks. Tell him you will take one if he takes one.

Answer 4

take the test - then go head held high

or even better get his brother to take a test

smile and wave as you go --- good luck

Answer 5

i think his as* needs to take the test. I think he is cheating. If he is accusing u of cheating then i guarantee u he is the one that's cheating.  

Answer 6

I would take it, show him that he's a loser.  After he gets the results I would never let him live it down.  

Answer 7

I would def take it to prove him wrong, but you dont wanna throw it in his face, that would start problems..lol... and about him cheating, once a cheater, always a cheater, its your decision tho

Answer 8

You say that he cheated on you when you were dating?  Hmmm...

If you did not cheat on him , then take the polygraph that he so much wants you to do.  After you take the polygraph, you should tell him that you took it to prove that you are not a liar or a cheater.  Tell him that was the first and last time that you would ever take the polygraph and that he will have to learn to trust you.  Then tell him that it hurt you deeply when he cheated on you while dating but you accepted him for what was done and moved on to marry him because you loved him.  You should also tell him that you do not expect him to cheat ever again while being married.  It is very important when we are with our spouses not to flirt with other people of the opposite s*x, especially in front of our spouse.  It makes for a dangerous game of divorce.  I have been there.  It is awful and if flirting continues with you or if your spouse flirts...you both need to seriously talk about the hurt that it causes.

Answer 9

Tell him that you'll take one if he takes one.

Sounds like your BIL is a S**t disturber. Don't think I'd let him come back anytime too soon.

Answer 10

Go ahead and take the polygraph. Then you can shove the truth in his face, and he'll be the one who looks like the idiot. And so will his brother. Make him feel like a fool, go on and pass the test.  

Answer 11

i wouldnt trust polygraph results, as it is too easy to 'cheat' them lol.

if you have nothing to worry about, take the test.

why is his brother suggesting you did cheat, has the brother expressed an interest in you???

Answer 12

  h**l no dont take no d**n test . You know d**n well this is just the start of the rest of your life so why even go in that direction . If they want to go in there little fantasy world then let them go . And if you did do the terrible deed then you have no reason to stick around anyway because it will all blow up in your face . So either way it goes for you your doomed and have a d**n good reason to just move forward  

Answer 13

sence he thinks you cheated anyway , take the test , lie and say yes i cheated , see what he makes of the results of the test then , and now i must leave , the man i cheated with is waiting for me outside , goodbye and have a nice life .

Answer 14

I agree with missie.

Answer 15

take it to prove him wrong.  That'll show him and his brother and then he will feel guilty for questioning you

Answer 16

If you are innocent then leave. Being accused all the time & him having a lying brother tear you apart with him actually believing it not worth the hassle

Usually the guilty accuse the innocent one

Answer 17

Oh, no doubt about it. Do not be such a ninny as to actually take a polygraph to make him happy. Wouldn't make any difference. He wouldn't believe it, anyway. And what sort of testing schedule did he have in mind. Probably get a better price for monthly testing and maybe a special every time he gets back from being away.

Oooh!  Ooooh! I know! Chastity belt!  Any dopey broad who'll take a polygraph will agree to wear one.

Better yet. Tell him to make his brother take the test.  

Answer 18

Isn't it funny how the guilty person always accuses the other partner of what THEY did? I wouldn't take the test. I would tell him he has no reason not to trust you and if he can't live with that, and choses to believe his idiot brother, he can go live with his brother instead. Maybe you guys could try couples counseling. It might give you guys some some new tools to deal with trust issues. Do you feel this marriage is worth it? If not, time to send him packing.

Answer 19

if my husband came home and asked me to take a polygraph i would bust his lip wide open for even suggesting it!!.

what planet is he living on to say he can dare ask it of you.i would dump his *** based on his complete stupidity!!.if you are  being honest with him then you stand your ground and don't give into his fantasy world and give him a kick up the *** for me for being a complete moron  

Answer 20

Trust is the root of all relationships if he can't trust you then you have no relationship anyways.  Why is he asking you to take the test why can't his brother take it.  That would tell me he trust his brother more then he trust you, and that is very insulting.  

Tell this idiot bye bye....

Answer 21

How would he get access to a polygraph?

I would take the test. I would make him take one to..ask all the ?'s you ever wanted to know.

then..I would decide from there what i wanted to do with him.

Answer 22

take it... he has his ****** brother filling his head with lies and he doesn't know what to think; although he should trust you, unless you've given him reason not to. i'd tell him that this is it though, from this point he trusts you or you're done.

... oh and i 2nd Jersey Girls response

Answer 23

can't this be worked out??