My Man Wants To Have s*x With 3 Of My Friends....Was I Wrong?

Question

My boyfriend has been pressuring me to have a 3some with him and another chick so I finally gave in and ask "who". He named 3 of my most prettiest friends and told me to chose one. I got real mad and jealous and broke up with him and even went as far as trying to hook him up with one. At first he wouldn't go for it but for some odd reason I kept pressuring him and now he's considering it. Of course she wouldn't have anything to do with him but now I'm really pissed at him.How could he wanna have s*x with my friends...Am I not good enough?

Do I have the right to be mad?

Or should I be glad this happen because he was no good anyway...???

Answer 1

you should be mad & you should be happy that its over. he probably would have cheated on you with one of your friends or someone else

Answer 2

The problem is not you and you have the right to be mad.  

And yes...be glad you found out now.  

If he is looking for a 3rd in the mix he is not into you for the long run and that is not your fault.  If all three people are into threesomes they can be great fun but they are not for everyone.  Everyone has their own limits and comfort level.  So your better off being with someone who is compatible with you.

If your in a committed relationship it can really s***w things up.  Does not sound like you would be interested in that kind of fun.

Answer 3

No, because he shared his fantasy with u & "kept it real"about who he wanted 2 have the "trey" with.  U broke up with him 4 being honest even though it was your friends he was considering & then u had the nerves 2 try & hook'em up wit 1 after yaw broke up.  She must be a real friend 4 not crossing that line & messin wit'er best friend ex & he must be a gentleman if he didn't try 2 holla at ur best friend.  Now what would u have done if your plan woulda backfired & they hooked up & started kickin it?  U would feel real crunchy huh?  

How is he no good?  All men have that fantasy & if a woman asks with who, 9 times outta 10 it's with one of yaw friends, cuz they know itz not gonna happen wit Beyonce, Halle, or Jessica Alba.

Quit all the boo-hoo'in & getcha man back or keep it movin.

Answer 4

Be glad you found out sooner than later!