My Marriage is a cat 5 Hurricane?

Question

There is no disaster relief for me.

What are good steps to take to keep a woman happy from arguing all the time?

Answer 1

Ride the storm out..Find out why she is mad You obvioulsy care cause your asking Keep talking to her do little things she like compliment her on liittle things (wow the house looks great you must of spent all day cleaning) this chicken taste great,woman seem complicated but we really just like to know were loved and app.

Answer 2

get a new one..lol, j/k...or not....you didnt give to many details as to why she is always arguing...so this will be hard to answer...

Answer 3

Just evacuate.

Answer 4

For me it would be s*x.

Answer 5

If it is that bad then I would suggest that you evacuate the area .

If you decide to ride the storm out then all you can do is sit her down and ask her what the problem is and the both of you work on it together . Or possibly suggest that she attends anger management classes .

Best of luck .

Answer 6

She didn't suddenly become this way.  She always had issues and why you didn't acknowledge or help before you got married shocks me.  Look, your job is not to solely appease her.  No spouse is meant to solely appease the other.  Get counseling.

Answer 7

Typically, a woman wants to be loved and a man wants to be respected. But there are different ways to love and respect. You're probably not meeting each other's needs and there is a growing resentment.

Ask her, how am I not meeting your needs? How do I "let you down"? What has it been like living with me?

That's a tough session with your wife, but I promise you, it will open things up tremendously, especially if you can avoid being defensive and letting your own garbage get in the way of listening to her.