My Mom always takes my younger sister's side, and it hurts. Help!?

Question

For example, I've been asking my little sister to clean our bathroom for a week. [we trade off weeks] So it's been an extra week since it's been cleaned. I always to a great job when I clean it; I scrub the floors on my hands and knees, I hand wash the shower with a sponge, I even clean out the cabinet and wash everything in it! My sister does a horrible job.

So I asked my Mom to step in and force my sister to clean it. When I asked her, she didn't do anything about it.

When Jane [my sister] finally got around to cleaning the bathroom today, it took her 5 minutes. I went in and checked her job...THE TOILET WASNT EVEN SCRUBBED.

All this time, my Mom is playing her nintendo. I tell Jane to re-clean it and I get a flat-out "NO".

My Mom can hear us, but she doesn't do anything about it and this happens all the time.

It's really beginning to hurt me, and I don't know what to do.

Answer 1

whenever you guys are in a fight and your mom comes to see what happens then tell her right then that she always takes here sisters side and when her sister cleans the bathroom she puts no effort in. If it were me and would yell and what not, but your mom might not put up with that.

Answer 2

That sometimes happens to me but when it does i try to bried my sisters i say if you do this and its really nice ill give you a dollar {candy,teddybear,pretzel,quarters,

And if they say it in a really mean way then I grab her hand and put the sponge in it and make sure she scrubs and the she tries to run so thats when I  sit at the bathroom door and not let her out until she listens  most of the time i try to be nice to her but she wants to be mean so i turn mean and lock her in the bathroom until she tells my mother

You should try it sometimes that make my mother mad but if i tell her and she does nothing about it where else will i turn

try it hope it works out for ya

Answer 3

i don't think that you should say any thing to her about the way she if your mother don't because it seems like she don't care so you being the the oldest just do it yourself if you want it done right  

Answer 4

see right here is the difference between guys and girls. where as a girl, i.e. you, just b*****s about it and hopes someone else will enforce it, guys tend to take things more head on. im not saying this to be sexist this is just how ive seen it with my siblings and other guys and gals ive seen. if it were me and my brother we would both say **** it to cleaning and go out or something like that. but, seeing as how thats not so helpful in this situation, whenever my brother and i would disagree about something we had to do it would sometimes get into a fight. my parents, knowing that they couldnt baby me anymore, would let my brother do this so that i would follow his example. and believe it or not it worked. i really look up to my brother and ive learned alot from him. maybe eith your mom being silent she is trying to do the same. i say the next time your sister starts acting up, wait until your parents are out of the house or something so she cant go running off and complaining and hit her yourself.

Answer 5

try talking to the counseler or teacher at school or better, your mom's freind 'cause if you tell them there's a chance she's gonna tell your mom but anyways

Ask your mom why do you always take Janes' side? I always do a good job and try my best helping out but you don't even care.