My Mom is being unfair?

Question

Alright so my mom tells me that the pool is empty and that we could go together and I could practice swimming all by my self. I agree so she tells me to invite my brother. We call him and my mom agrees to let him invite his friend. I call it off because our pool is small, and they would disturbe my practicing. My mom tells me we could go tommarow, i agree and put down my swimsuit. All the sudden my mom throws a fit that i'm not going. And she says things like "We always take you everywhere, like a little princess." She also told me she wouldn't drive me anywhere anymore, no sleepovers, movies, nothing. And she screams at me in front of my brothers friend. But, I just called off the practice thiung and she offered me to go tommarow.. plus the sky is dark blue and a thunder storm is nearing.

Answer 1

sounds like ur moms having a breakdown

Answer 2

Sometimes Moms freak - just like everyone else. And so she pulls out all the stops by taking everything away and putting you on restriction for the rest of your natural life. She didn't mean it. She over-reacted.

If she is good to you, loves you and hugs you and tells you you are wonderful most of the time, you are one lucky girl. Heck - you've got a pool to use and a Mom available to take you?  Count your blessings!

How about going to her and telling her you'd like just the two of you to go next time as it's a distraction to have brother AND friend along while you are trying to practice?   Or - put this in writing instead, make her a sweet little letter and stick it on her bathroom mirror and don't foget to thank her for bringing you into the world.

Moms need to know they are appreciated. I wish my girls would take the time to step out of their needs and wants to do that for me.

Take care... and I don't think you're a brat at all.

Answer 3

This sounds like a misunderstanding. It's over now, let your mom have her little fit because she's holding all the cards in the deck, if you know what I mean

Answer 4

she sounds crazy.

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Answer 5

You sound like a little brat.

Answer 6

You poor little baby. What a terrible life you must lead.

Answer 7

well thats weird cause she seem to be nice about it and then freaks out i guess its unfair that she wont drive you anywhere anymore but she prolly will actually still drive you places just apologize and explain why you called it off very calmly and see what happen but apologize first

Answer 8

      I can see where your coming from. To me it seems like she is being unfair and its not your fault that you didn't want to be disturbed while you were practicing!!  And she shouldn't be so hard on you about the no sleepovers thing because you cant drive!    But if you really want to fix this just calmly go to your mom and tell her how you feel about this whole thing I'm sure she will understand where you are coming from :)    hope this will help :)

Answer 9

Sooo...WTF is ur question???  

Answer 10

Sounds like she may be a little mental

Answer 11

your mom might be going through menapause

Answer 12

She seems unfair, based on what you said. Everything is not yourfault. But try to understand your mom. She needs a little loving from you too,

Answer 13

WOW!!!!!!I thought my mom was insane but you mom d**n yea she is totally unfair my parents want me to go everywhere with theme & sometimes I dont wanna & they understand

Answer 14

Well hon,I guess it upset her when you called i off because your brother's friend was going, after you said you wanted to go.

Answer 15

OH DEAR GOD THE APOCALYPSE IS HERE!... every f*** for himself