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My Mother & Sister Think I'm Heartless!?!?!?!!!

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I don't think I am, I fell sorry for people, I've given sympathy. I just think I distance myself form some of the hurt, and pain that's around the world. I CAN'T feel sorry for every-single-person-for-every-single-pro...

If I don't moan and groan and cry my mother and sister BOTH gang up on me and start yelling how I'm just a heatless mean human being for not felling sorry for this person or that person, and that if I want to be a Doctor (that's what I'm planning on being) that I have to have a heart (well I just chose not to be as attached to people as much as they do, and I think I need that to be a doctor. Am I right???) ETC. They will go on and on and on about how mean I am, and I think they drove me away form a lot of feeling because they act like this, it's not my personality to show my feeling to EVERYONE who comes through my door.

How do I handle them? I've tried talking to them, but they keep going, I've talked to my dad, and he won't listen, I can't take it anymore. They act like I'm not freakin' human! That I must be scum to not care about and hurt for people that are having trouble (like noting have enough food, etc.) But I do, like I said before, I just don't some of my feeling as openly as they do. I'm tired of getting yelled at over what THEY think I should be and act like....

HELP! What would you do??

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  1. If you want to be a doctor, you have to learn "bedside manners."

    If you have to tell a patient that he's going to die, you can't just say, "You're going to die." You have to be sympathetic, and say it like you feel very sorry for the person and his/her family.

    So, practice your bedside manner with your sister and mom. Act it out if you have to so they get off your back.

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