I am tired because for 6 yrs I put my life on hold and gave all my salary to my mum and even took loans to help her and yet she didn.t really need the help - the truth was that things were not as bad as she made out. She never started any of the businesses she claimed she would, my husband and I never saw any of the money. It's taken me this long to realise I was being fooled now I made the decision to go to University she was upset because the bank of me was closed, we fell out and she said she wasn't going to work. We gave her another chance but all she's done like last time is lie to friends and relatives. If it were not for my siblings I wouldn't bother keeping in touch with her. She is VERY mean and RUDE and doesn't care that she's speaking to my husband. We have decided she should go because I can't stand the lies anymore, it puts me down. I have gained so much weight again sine she's been around because I eat for comfort.
I just want to cut her out of my life completely. She also likes to use emotional blackmail and now when she tries to say I'll stop working I just say go ahead- you'll suffer not me.
I have had enough. I feel like I don't have a mum. She says so much to put me down and make me upset and there are always fights. I've told her I've had enough she has to move out earlier than planned. Am I right? I don't call her much because she ends up fighting and it's not just me, it's the same with other relatives. I have tried speaking to her but it's not helping.
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