My Mum keeps calling me fat >=(?

Question

Today she said I was fat in front of 2 of my uncles, my sisters and my dad. My uncles' faces we're shocked and they said it was unasked for and out of order and that if she kept saying it we'd all be anorexic when we're older. I'm 14 and quite short for my age but I'm a size 6. I won't deny that I COULD loose a bit of fat from my tummy and thighs but I am not even fat. I have celiac disease and was underweight for the first 10 years of my life but I now weigh just under 7 stone. She said it in a serious way but when my sister saw me crying she got angry and had a go at my mum who apologised to me. But I'm fed up of her always saying stuff like that so I need to know how to loose 1 or 2 stones in the shortest time possible. Thanks in advance x

Answer 1

is this a joke?

Dont do that, a size 6 is already TINY, even if you did lose that much weight it wouldnt be sustainable because you ahve to LIVE im 14 as well and understand what it's like, just eat healthily and if i were you i would tkae my mum to the doctor with me and ask the doctor.nurse to check my bmi. if you're in the proper weight range which im sure yu are, then she'll have to shut up, won't she?

Answer 2

Your mother is bang out of order. Someone needs to talk to her to put her right. Is there anyone in your family you can talk to about this?

Answer 3

DO NOT try to lose that amount of weight. You are not overweight. You will make yourself seriously ill.

Answer 4

Your mother sounds vile.

Answer 5

My dad tells me that >;[

Don't worry about it you are deffinently not overweight if anything you are underweight but as you are 14 too you shouldn't be worrying about this rubbish ;]

Answer 6

you dont need to lose any weight. im a size seven and i am not big. if you like yourself then just be happy the way you are.

Answer 7

You should have said..."And you're a ******!"

Answer 8

My Mum Is The Same ;[

You not Overweight at all

Please Dont Loose Weight ;[

Answer 9

when you get to size 14-16 worry about your weight, i canty understand why a mum would say that to her daughter :S

Answer 10

1) Start exercising

2) Start eating healthier

3) Tell your Mom that it makes you sad when she calls you fat.

4) Ask her to help you lose the weight..

5) I hardly think size 6 is any reason to lose even a pound. You sound perfect to me. Is your Mom anorexic?

Answer 11

ur mum is a loser tell her from me to shut up (y)

dont try and loose weight and btw if u loose weight she'll be sayin u are too skinny

Answer 12

My mom is exactly the same. Your not fat. Since your in your teens your going to naturally slim out. Just like eat healthy and exercise and stuff. You could exercise by like dancing or playing sports or even walking home from school. I'm really lazy so i exercise by just dancing to my mp3 player and I walk home from school. Parents can be over critical My mom's been calling me fat since I was about 10. Just try and ignore her. I know its hard cuz I try to ignore my mom but you just gotta try. If you wanna talk e-mail me! Bye!

Answer 13

Oh bless you hon. Believe me you are NOT fat. You are a healthy weight believe me. I work with anorexics and that is NOT the way to go.I don't know what your Mother was thinking about when she said this. I'm not surprised you were upset and maybe it's something that you have to talk to her about. She has to know how hurt you were and she has to understand the ramifications of what she has said. Do you have a member of your family you could turn to and talk to ? If you do please do it and for goodness sakes do not lose any weight. Celiacs disease means you have to follow a special diet anyway so please take care of yourself.