My OLDER Sister Is Copying my style and it's pissing me off!!!!!?

Question

okay im 14 and shes 16. My whole life i've always been the girl who likes to "stand out" and i wear cloths that are kinda "skater-ish/"punky"sorta emo whatever u wanna call it. She's always been the "preppy" one. who shops at american eagle, abercrobmie and all those stores and i'd rather buy stuff at Pac-sun and Hot Topic. Well recently she's been trying to dress like me and buying the same cloths that i have and the thing that makes me so upset is that her friends think I'M coping HER because she's older-even though it's the other way around. That makes me so mad. ppl tell me to get my own style and ive dressed like that for years! like this isnt anything new but they insist on saying that im copying her. She jusr started dressing like me this summer. Why is she doing this? it makes no sense. Also, i got my ear cartiladge pierced and now she wants to do it too! sHE hasn't yet, but she is planning to.

Answer 1

put nair in her shampoo bottle, put tacks in the bottom part of her shoes, soak her retainer in salt water...

Stay awake until your sister is sleeping and then secretly take pictures of her. Show all your friends and laugh about the different sleeping positions she has. An alternative to this is to film her, especially if she snores.

put some laxative in her drinks/food whenever possible

get ahold of some drugs and put them in her purse, her desk, etc... where your parents will find the stuff

get creative... look up on the internet ways to get even.

Don't get mad... get even.

Answer 2

i've got sorta the same problem, my younger sister copies me. from what you said i guess i dress the same as you.

but it's annoying when people copy you.

did you ever think she's not copying YOU, because our style is now considered "cool". have you seen all the JC Penny commercials? "punk" is in. i hate it because we've had to fight for our right to wear whatever we want, we put up with the c**p people gave us. and now those same people just now realize it's a great style. so they want it.

she's probably just fallowing the trend. don't worry, hopefully she'll fallow it to the next thing, whatever that will be. and you'll have your style back.

Answer 3

i have ur exact style. and that would totally p**s me off... my friends started doing and i flat out told them to cut the c**p. it might not work for you, so i hope other answers are better than mine haha. good luck!

Answer 4

lol maybe she is trying to either pissed you off, or connected with you haha. Anyway i think you should dress up like her old self see what happen.

Answer 5

copy her old style or take her clothes buhahaahha. PPL copy me all the time. I started singing a song and everyone started singing it. I like a wierd song everyone says its stupid and now everyone loves it. I Styled these shoes and everyone did that... g*y it happens.. its life so deal

Answer 6

u can get over it.

Answer 7

shes jealous!!! 1 you should be proud 2 this happened to my friend what you do is tell her its pissing you off and if that dosent work yell your face off cuz i do know how you feel and tell her friends that shes copying you and if they're just like ya w/e just be like b*tches and walk away

best of luck!

Answer 8

holy s h i t. dude i'm not even kidding this sounds like the exact same situation i have, but with my younger sister... weird. haa

well. maybe it's just a phase or something, or maybe she's just super jealous of you...so she's trying to make people think you're copying her..why, i don't know..that's her deal.  but, maybe in time she'll stop, like i said, this could just be an odd phase for her.

haha or, you could start dressing all preppy like her, then maybe she'd stop. ha.  

well. best of luck to you. :)

oh. and just wondering..how much does piercing your ear caritlage hurt? because i've been wanting to, but my friend had told me it was the worse thing she felt in her life..so i'm not sure. haha.  

Answer 9

I've heard of something similar before. You may not like this answer, but if you want to mess with her, dress like a prep for a bit (idk you may be totally opposed to it)...it will probably p**s her off. If not, just do like preppy make up or something.

If u dont like that idea, you should talk to her.

If that doesnt work, yell at her :]

Answer 10

lol does why i can't get no c**p about girls always having problem with stupid things. i mean WTF MATE

Answer 11

One of the greatest forms of flattery is copying, so you must have terrific taste so you should take the compliment and suggest to her that you will help her look great too.and go to her closet and put a style you think looks good on her, I wish I had a sibling and you might not think so now, but you are lucky.and her real friends know she has changed her style so let them think what they want.

Answer 12

When people copy the way you dress, then they greatly admire you and want to "be like you." Ignore her and she will loose interest in copying you. Argue with her, and she will continue to copy you.

Answer 13

Don't worry about it. I know it's annoying, but just do what you do. You're not the 1st one to EVER dress "skater-ish/punky" or get your cartilege pierced, so you don't exactly own a patent on it, ya know. Just go on about your life, because who gives a c**p what other people say or why they do what they do! Right!? Brush your shoulders off & move on!

Your sister apparently can't get it together enough to just go with her own style, some people are like that. If you wanna stand out, just accept that you will be a leader in life & not a follower. Leaders get copied, a lot, there's nothing u can do about it. Just kinda maybe find it a little flattering that she thinks ur style is good enough to be copied.

Answer 14

Don't worry about it because fashion sucks.

Answer 15

wow that would p**s me off too...i think you should talk to your sis about it and tell her how you feel and that her copying you is annoying and she needs to be herself not try a be like you if she is stupid and denies it then just ignore her and keep your style...you know that you werent copying her and it was your style first...hope this helped... :) good luck

Answer 16

tell her to get her own style and stop copying you.

if she doesnt want to tell her to explain to all her friends SHES copying YOU.

Answer 17

Just let her be that way.. she takes example on the little one .. she should be embarassed  

Answer 18

Try copying what she does for a little while.

It'll freak her out and soon she'll stop copying you.

I have 4 younger sisters, they copy everything I do.

I copied them and they freaked out and soon it all stopped.

Answer 19

maybe your copying HER

Answer 20

If that's your biggest problem you have a good life. Okay sure it's irritating when people think you're copying your sister rather than the other way around. You can't control how she chooses to dress. You can just point out to anyone who says you're copying her that you've always dressed that way. If you say it in a calm voice, it will actually do more to shut them up then getting mad.  

Answer 21

♫