My StepDad hit on me and I don't think my Mum will believe me?

Question

He tried kiss me last night. I was a bit drunk at the time. I told him I didn't want to and went bed and he said sorry. Then this morning I overheard my Mum and him talking and I think he was blaming it on me. He tried to talk to me this morning but I pretended to be asleep. If he has told her it was me, she must believe him because she is acting normal as ever. What should I do?

Answer 1

your mom should believe you if you tell her the truth because you share the same blood. as the saying goes blood is thicker than water. the truth will prevail no matter what so hang in there. your step-dad seems like a perverted ****** to me, he'll get his karma don't worry. :D

Answer 2

Did you hear clearly what was said between him & your mum?  

I would talk to her about it - just tell the truth - the whole truth before it becomes something else.

Answer 3

tell a school counselor, another family member that you trust, or even call the police for advice.

it seems that if you tell your mother now, he will try to "damage control" and spin the story differently, and your mom will believe him not because she trusts him more, but because the truth would be so hard for her to accept. after you talk to someone on the outside, then you can tell your mom, in private, preferably outside of the house or at least when the stepfather is not there so he can't chime in.

i'm so sorry this is happening to you, good luck!

Answer 4

go to the police my friend!!

Answer 5

just go to ur grandma's home,,..or 1 of ur relatives home,,..if ur mum didn't trust u then leave them alone,,..what the point in leaving with them,,..

Answer 6

It sounds like he was trying to do damage control with your mom because he knows the consequences of his actions.  Shame on your mom for not addressing the situation.  You need to talk to her and tell her straight up what happpened.  If she still doesn't believe you...get outside help immediately!

Answer 7

Tell a school counselor or somelike in authority.... chances are the next time he may try to go further....

Answer 8

counselor..

you need tat!!

to help you about your step-father..

Answer 9

You should talk to your mother. Tell her what happened. Let her know that you want no part of him in any way shape or form. It sounds like he may have been doing damage control. He got to your mother before you could. That way she will not want to believe you. Tell your mother that you will not be alone with him, if she is not in the house. That if he should try anything like that again  you are going to yell for her no matter what time of night it is. That will surprise him and put him off guard at the time and alert her what is going on. Also tell her that you want to know in advance when she is going to be gone and he is home so you can be gone at the same time. That way nothing can ever happen again, or even worse. I am sorry this has happened to you. You should not be treated this way. I hope this will help you in some way. Good Luck.

Answer 10

tell your mom straightly. just tell the truth.