My Teenage Daughter is an Alcoholic! HELP!?

Question

My daughter is 15, 16 soon and she comes home at least once a week p*s*ed.

I dont know what to do. I tryed to keep her inside but she got really mad and climed out the bathroom window ( hers was locked ) and I locked all the windows and she snuck out at 5am when we were all asleep and didnt come home till 9pm the next day.

I tryed to get her to have a job as a babysitter so now she does spend her Friday and Saturday evenings babysitting but she has more money now so she just goes and buys drink on Wed and Thur etc...

I try not to fight with her as my mother fought with me a lot and now we arnt close and I dont want it to be like that for me and my daughter.

Im worried about here so I brought her to the doctors to be sucribed to the pill but she never takes it as she thinks she will get fat.

I really dont know what to do...

Answer 1

i would give her b.c just incase but drinking part u cant do much saddly:(

Answer 2

First, has she been in therapy? Maybe talkign to a professional would help her understand her issues.

Give her a breathalyzer every day when she comes home, and in the morning to prove if she has snuck out or not. I do believe you can get something like that at RadioShack. I remember we used to sell one when I worked there.

Install something like this:

http://www.mypreciouskid.com/wireless-do...

The idea is that when she opens the door or window at night, the alarm goes off and you know she is trying to get out.

Get her on birth control, Depo maybe (the shot) so you don't need to rely on her remembering to take the pill every day.

Get her the Gardasil vaccination. This way she has some protection for the HPV virus, which can be trasmitted sexually and cause genital warts and cervical cancer

Take her for routine drug screenings. Send her to rehab if it comes up positive. Don't give her the chance to protest.

It may seem a bit extreme, but this is the time in her life that she needs the most guidance. Even if you have to force it upon her. One day she will appreciate it.

Answer 3

since she is under 18, it is your responsibility to put her in rehab.  Your state will have an institution that will take her and there are many private others as well.  It is best to do this sooner.  The pill will not protect her from stealing a car and  possibly hurting or killing people while trying to get her toxin or choice.  The pill will not protect her when the shop owner notices she is stealing wine, and shoots her as she tries to run.  s*x is quite frankly the least of your worries!

Get her in a good program, get her into AA, and then be her parent in all the good ways as well as the ones she gets mad about.

Answer 4

FGS she is 15!! be a parent,,lay down the ground rules.

Answer 5

It doesn't sound like she's an alcoholic.

Alcoholics are dependant on alcohol she sounds like she's just going out and having fun.

BUT

she is young

just scare her about liver disease and show her people dying because they drink too much...

Eventually she'll' grow out of it anyway =]

Good Luck x

Answer 6

Your daughter is probably going to keep doing it, no matter what, unless you do something drastic like move somewhere else. Even then, you're only making it slightly harder for her to go out and drink if she really wanted to.

I think in that kind of situation, you might as well come to accept that she's into it, and try to build trust in your relationship. That way, even if you can't stop her, at least she might tell you where she is at night, and you can check up on her if you're worried, because she won't be dodging your calls trying to hide what she's obviously doing.

Answer 7

I don't believe you, sorry.

Answer 8

You need to get her to see a counciler so it dont get to bad and you need to show her what alchole does to a young teenagers body and how bad it will affect her adult life  

Answer 9

It's your fault for not disciplining her. Also, you need to take her to REHAB!

Answer 10

don't that this the wrong way... but how about the jeremy kyle show?

Answer 11

i think she needs to see the doctor again and go to rehab!

hope this helps good luck. :)

Answer 12

put her in rehab and the pil, wont protect her form AID's

get her on the depo injection.

ground her until whe can be trusted to at least use a condom.