My Uncle Molested me wat shud i do?

Question

I found these videos in my dad's brothers cabinet, i was cleaning the house and found them. It showed me as a 5 or 6 year old and we were naked and he was telling me to put my hand on his p***s. I don't no if my parents no shud i tell them and how can i confront my uncle when he comes back from work b/c we live in the same house and i'm 14 plz help me?

Answer 1

I don't know much about the rest of your situation , but you can do this: if you go to school , as I think you do , take the videos with you . Do this quietly. Don't tell anyone you are going to do this because it could go badly for you if anyone else in your family knows .Get to school, go directly to your guidance counselor, tell them you need to speak privately and tell them what you have with you . Have them take a look at the videos and he / she should be able to help you out. Once the law gets involved with this , and they will, they will make short work of any molesters. This is serious stuff . you won't be in any trouble ,as long as you are telling the truth ,but dear old uncle might get a few years in the can as a result of his stupidity , as he should. The only reason I tell you to go to the guidance counselor instead  is because I think your parents or dad might cover for the uncle ,living in the same house and all. I f you go to the counselor , there's no covering for anyone .The reason I feel strongly about this is because it happened to me when I was the same age ,and I remember it well. I'm O.K., but my life is not what it could have been. My mother buried the incident , but I don't blame her entirely. It's just the way things were 45 years ago. Good Luck.

Answer 2

!!!Show the video to your parents they they definetly dont know about this!!!! and then go to the police..this can be very seriouse... :/

good luck!!

Answer 3

show your parents first, then confront your uncle.

i suggest calling the police.

and don't pull that stupid c**p like ohh but he is my uncle.. well a family member wouldn't do this to a little girl, especially his niece.

CALLL THE COPS!!!!

Answer 4

tell mos def

and call the police

Answer 5

If you think your parents may confiscate the video to prevent your uncle from going to jail, then give it to the police first!!

Some families may try to handle it themselves and keep it an inside thing.

Your uncle belongs in jail.......actually he deserves to be dead.....

Answer 6

Yes show your parents!!

Answer 7

I agree with shanz. Tell/ show your parents, call the police, then confront your uncle. I'm positive they would want to know about this. I know if I had a child that was molested by a family member, I would never want to send my daughter over there again and would want him to rot in jail... even if he were my brother.

Answer 8

i think you should show your parents the videos you have found as what he did to you i very wrong he is meant to be there to help you and to look after you as he is your uncle, he has betrayed the trust of you parents and you.

i am a parent and if someone done that to my child i would kill them with my bear hands, so maybe you could take the videos to your local police station to spare your parents from the hurt from watching the videos themselves.

he really needs to be punished for what he has done and also so he can not do this to anyone else again.

  

Answer 9

omg! i am so sorry. please tell your parents or another trusted adult. like the other person said, Do NOT confront him yourself. this could be dangerous!  

Answer 10

Tell your parents

don't confront you uncle alone.

the same thing kinda happened to me

but he was caught while he was doing it to me and my brother and cousin.

i know how you feel, it's scary.

Answer 11

YOU SHOULD TELL SOMEONE YOU TRUST NOW AND I MEAN NOW, DONT BE AFRAID OF YOUR UNCLE OR ANY THREATS HE MAY SAY. YOU WILL BE PROTECTED BY WHOEVER YOU TELL. DONT LET THIS GO ON, YOU DONT DESERVE THIS, PLEASE TELL NOW.