My University situation, what do you think is right?

Question

I've got a very big problem... my head is telling me to go to university, why? Because I've just left college and living here... I have no idea what I want to do except pursue a web design career and where I am, there's not that much going on.

On the other hand my heart is telling me to stay, theres a girl and she means everything to me, I'm sure you know the intence feelings you get from this and I can't bare to leave her... Then my head says, come on, you are going to fall behind for a girl? What about if it goes wrong?

Basically, it's putting me down and I haven't left my room in days. What do you think the best thing to do is? I'm moving next monday :( how can I slap myself round the face and sort myself out (not litteraly though).

Answer 1

If you don't go to university, you will end up blaming her & resenting her for your limited education.  You have to do what's best for you in the long run.  No one can tell you what that is, but it sounds to me like you already know.

It's going to be hard to tell her, but you just have to say something like, "After much introspecition and discussing things with my family and mentors, I've decided that I need to ..."

Good luck.

Answer 2

s*x > school

imo

Answer 3

If you love each other you'll agree that you need to go to school so the 2 of you have a good future to look forward to.