My abusive brothers bday coming up, don't wanna go to his bday party. Am i wrong?

Question

My brother was part of the reason on why i moved out of the house. Unfortunately, it turns out that i dont work on my brothers bday, im off.

The reason why i dont wanna go to his bday party is because i dont like how he treated my mom. He would cuss the c**p out of her, physically fight with her,threaten to kill her when he got the chance to be alone with her, he made her a black eye a couple months ago, and he's only 14.

I dont approve of his behavior. I told my mom thats why i dont wanna go, becuz how he treated and i feel uncomfortable around him. My mom said i was being cold. Im gonna buy him a bday card or gift. But i dont wanna be with him on his bday.

Am i wrong, should i go?

Answer 1

You should not go if you do not want to. what a bucket of c**p your mom is selling you. You are not cold for not wanting to be involved with this farce. You are smart. I wouldnt put up with that for anything. what a crock. Give the little loser a card and stay away from him. If you go you are showing him that you approve of his terrible behavior and you obviously do not. Stand your ground and do what is right. dont go