My boyfriend calls me more frequently than i call him. When he does call ( even in 4 in the morning, when he cant sleep) i'm always there for him. When he needs to vent he calls me. I know when hes angry and i help him talk about it. I don't usually ask for his help. I'm a do it myself kind of gal. But when i do ask, i would assume he would take advantage of that and try to be there, even if he cant fix it. I was feeling upset the other day and i just needed to hear his voice. When i was talking to him on the phone, is showed in my voice and tone that i was happy to talk to him. Heres what he does most of the time. He says he has to do something real quick and he'll call me back. We were talking around midnight. So when he said he would call back and 30 mins past, i knew he wasnt. So, i called him and said "why do you do that?" he said "what? says i'll call you and then you call me and you find out i'm not doing anything?" I said "Yeah but it's not just that, i needed you, i have alot on my mind and hearing your voice calms me" He got all defensive and then said, "oh, well what is it?" I said forget it, i'm tired of this. Then hung up. He called back then said don't hang up untill you say your fine. I said yeah i'm fine then hung up. I know he is well aware of what he's doing. I'm not speaking to him. He text me last night. The thing is, i feel like i should stand my ground. But then why is it me who feels like i'm doing somthing wrong.?
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