My aunt just did the ultimate betrayal to me, HELP!?

Question

Well I have a very abusive father(sexually, verbally, and physically). His sister, lets call her Pam, also doesn't speak to him and we have become very close and she has been a huge support system. Well my other aunt, lets call her Jen, told my father about my relationship with Pam and that Pam says he is abusive towards me. Jen told him this after her and Pam got in a big fight and just did it in spite of her. Now my dad has called Pam and told her to "stay away from my children, or else". Now Jen says she wants to just keep contact with me to a minimum until he cools down. I feel so betrayed. What can I do?

Answer 1

Don't feel betrayed she may be just trying to be considerate of you and what your father may do if you keep contact with her.  I had a boyfriend who was like that and he made me shut everyone out of my life so I could have no one to turn to, talk to someone about what he's doing not just to vent but so you can get out of it.  Best of luck to you, i'll keep you in my prayers.

Answer 2

I think the best thing for you to do is to call Pam and just say that you feel betrayed and that you think she's out of order for leaving you at clearly a touchy time. You could also call your father and maybe yell at him for threatening your aunt. If you have anymore grief maybe threaten him with the police?

Answer 3

family fights hurt the worst

i'd say s***w your family and hang out with better people. people who wont leave you because of stupid threats.

try to find some other mentor to spend your time with.

also, i would hope that if you are being sexually abused u would report that to the police. your father should have no legal rights to tell you who can and cant hang out with you....he lost his rights when he took your innocence.

call the police or child protective agency!

Answer 4

First thing is WHY HAS YOUR AUNT NOT TRIED TO REPORT OR STOP YOUR FATHER FROM THIS ABUSE, AND WHY ARE YOU TAKING IT.  She may be doing this so that your father, does not abuse you even more out of anger, you should at least TALK IT OUT WITH HER.  YOUR FATHER IS A PERVERT AND A CRIMINAL, AND YOU HAVE TO REPORT HIM.  HE IS NOT FATHER, BUT A MONSTER, AND IF YOUR AUNT CAN AGREE TO SIDE WITH YOU, AND KEEP YOU WITH HER, REPORT HIM TO THE POLICE RIGHT AWAY, BEFORE HE TOTALLY RUINS YOUR LIFE.  HE HAS NO RIGHT BEING THE WAY HE IS, TO TELL YOU WHAT YOU SHOULD OR SHOULD NOT DO.  IF YOUR AUNT WON'T HELP, GET AN ADULT OR A TEACHER, AND TELL THEM THE WHOLE THING, OTHERWISE YOU WILL END UP IN RUINS OR MAD.

Answer 5

You should go to school and talk to your counselor about how you can take your dad for abuse and maybe you could get the court on your side and you could live with your aunt "Pam" Good luck!