My aunt knows how much I have been through and how much pain but she keeps pouring salt in my wounds anyway?

Question

What should I do? She is so malicious and she wants me to feel as bad as her. How do I cope with it?

Answer 1

Have you tried talking to her and telling her how you feel? You could also consider saying that just because she feels bad does not give her the right to take it out on others. Misery does not like company. But she should find another way to try to make herself feel better. You don't have to listen to her. If you can't talk to her or it doesn't work then remove yourself from the situation. If she is smart then she will get it. Don't allow yourself to be a victim. We all make mistakes in life. We are human. It's ok. It will be ok as long as we try to be positive and just do our best.

Answer 2

SAY NO DO NOT LET ANY BODY HURT YOU!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

FYI, I dealt with an apartment manager that I worked with PT over several years. She seemed intent on being the most evil, brutalizing tyrant ever known, altho she could be sweet at times and believed herself to be a born-again Christian (!!) at 78 with a family she claimed existed, but she was never visited by them.

After considerable friction, I finally worked out that she was simply an insecure control freak, that her intolerance for others was just a shield, and her callous indifference to the tenants and neighbors opinion was part of it.

It took time, but I wore her down by contesting every dogmatic statement, refusing to caught up in her insults, and dodging the displaced responsibilities and blame she would attempt.

You gotta have strength of character, ability to spot inconsistencies, and a calm indifference you might not feel, but does threaten a tyrant who cannot stand being irrelevant.

Answer 4

Stab her in the eye with a potato peeler.  No not really, ignore it, and walk away from the situation.  (that sounds more reasonable)

Answer 5

umm well you might want to go see a sciatietrist or something like that for that. or go and get yourself seperated from your family lol.