My b/f's ex hits the kids. She's had CPS come out and see the horrible living conditions and see the bruises

Question

But they say that it's inconclusive and basically in so many words told him that something detrimental has to happen before they will believe anything is really happening. He's trying to gain custody of his kids but the system is siding with her. Are there by any chance, any professional's out there that could give me some advice and maybe a foot in the door to help him get his kids out of that living situation? It's heart wrenching not being able to help in any way. He's at his wits end and helpless too. These kids hate going to their mom's and beg for him to keep them and he feels like he's betraying them by allowing them to go back to that hole in the wall. Please help us! We live in the state of New York, if that helps.

Answer 1

TALK TO A LAWYER,THEY WILL GIVE FREE ADVISE JUST SO THEY THINK THEY CAN GET YOUR CASE,,GOOD LUCK..PEACE

Answer 2

heres a tip THE COURT WILL ALWAYS SIDE WIT THE WIFE . unless you have like video or pictures of her actually doing it.or get the kids to say that she hit them in court and show the bruises

Answer 3

As a teacher, I totally understand this situation.  It's heartbreaking.  The best thing I know to tell you is fight, fight, fight.  But it will be a long and expensive battle.  I've seen it before, and it doesn't always end the way we wish it would.  It's a national tragedy.

Answer 4

have the police too go and see the living situation, if they feel the kids are in danger , they will take them, then the father will automaticly get custody of the kids. maybe he can take pictures of the abuse, pictures don't lie, people do.He can make out police reports to back up his claims, also the children have a voice, let them tell the police, of the situation,call department of chidren and family services(dcfs), it's something like cps.but it is dcfs ,they are a step higher than cps.

Explain all to them, and you will get results-call 311 and tell them you want to report child abuse and an investigartor will be at her house within 24 hrs!

pplleeaassee take pictures that will be your proof!!!!!