My baby's dad is no good?

Question

well i have just had a baby 2 weeks ago. and i told the baby's dad who has never been there though out the pregnancy and he don't want to see her. i don't know why? i text-ed him but no replay when i ask. should i go round to his flat?????

OH he is not english Turkish

and has loads of Friends so when i go round what do i say?????

Answer 1

Why bother?....Its obvious he isnt interested....you have to come to terms with that. Perhaps its best you move on with your life and bring up your daughter without him. He sounds a real loser....You may find happiness with someone else who would want to bring your daughter up as his own....

Its best you just keep away....it will only bring you heart ache in the long run....Its up to you.!!

Answer 2

My daughters father didn't want to know & has had nothing to do with her since she was 2 weeks old (she is now 8).  You are wasting your time on this guy.  If he doesn't want to know then he's the one missing out.  Forget him & get on with you life with your daughter.  No dad at all is better than a useless one.

Answer 3

You don't need him. Its clear his does not want you or the baby so forget him and concentrate on the baby and give it all the love and attention the baby deserves.

Tell him to go fu*k himself. He does not deserve happiness and needs a p***s amputation and tounge circumcision.

Answer 4

NO NO NO !!

If he wont return your calls just leave it and set the CSA on him.

Chances are if you go round he'll just shut the door in your face.

Answer 5

i think your best arranging to go around to his, or see his family and arrange for you to meet up and you can make him either buck up his ideas and get into the babies life or offer some sort of financial support atleast , hope this helps a little =]

Answer 6

Hi,

God this story reminds a bit of my situation!

I have a beautiful boy Caden and his dad walked out 2 days after I gave birth. He got with a mate of mine!

He has not bothered to see Caden. I sent letters, photos to have them sent back, I travelled miles to his parents house for them to spit at me and shut door on me when it was raining and cold I carrying a newborn baby!

So I decided there is nothing more I can do  -the door is open for him to see Caden but he refuses.

So now I keep photos and letters I have sent and videos of Caden in a box so that if my ex comes back he can see bits he missed out on but my mum also said it a good idea as shows Caden I tried to maintain contact between him and his dad, when he grows up.

It not about scoring points, I just want Caden to know his dad.My ex and I have no relationship and better off alone but I don't see why he has to abandoned his son.

But remember you have a little girl there who needs you and it HIM who missing out and his lost.

Just concentrate on being a brilliant mummy to her as that all she will need!

Lx  

Answer 7

NOOOOO!! stay away from this man. he has no respect for you and has no intentions of helping you with the baby. i imagine that if the baby had been a boy, daddy might be insisting on taking him back to turkey with him without you. count yourself lucky. do not throw urself at this man.

Answer 8

he should meet the baby at least, and set up a financial plan, or else sue him for not paying child support