My best friend's are on my ex-boyfriend's side, grrr.?

Question

Ok i recently broke up with my boyfriend and my friends are calling me a ***** about it. they were like, your reason was stupid to break up with him and stuff. my ex begged me to take him back and i kept saying no. i broke up with him because i wasn't sure about being in a relationship anymore, he wasn't my type anymore, and i was basically confused at the time. i still love him but its like, hard to get back together so i asked my best friends for advice on what to do.

they said you're being so mean to him, why did you have to break up with him? he's a nice guy.

i know he's a nice guy but basically their advice were making me feel worse and worse.

im just scared that they will get mad at me. i just wanted them to help, not make me feel worse than i feel right now.

Any idea on how to tell them stop or how i feel or whatever? thanks.

Answer 1

i think you should say to heck with all of them and move on. if they want to be your friends then they need to treat you like a friend and quit making you feel like c**p about yourself. if they can't do that then you need to ask yourself why they are your friends to begin with. and none of this....but i've known them since we were all babies.....c**p. either they treat you right or you're outta there.

you don't have to have a reason to break up with someone. that's what dating is for....going out with different ppl to see what kind of person you want to end up with for life. that's UR decision to make.

Answer 2

Only you know how you feel.

Your friends need to respect your point of view... They should not be upset with you, Why stay somewhere or with someone if your just not sure.

Don't mislead him, if you love him... the question should be, "not do I love him, but rather am I in love with him"? Good Luck

Answer 3

I have had a similar situation before. I would say that this your life and you are the one who has to be in a relationship with him, so you have the right to make that decision. if you dont really want to be with him anymore then there is no reason for pushing yourself into it. You are sure that he not the type you would want to spend rest of your life with so there is no reason why you should waste your time with him.