My best friend's boyfriend tells everyone about the sexual part of their relationship...?

Question

He shares it with everyone in the locker room at football. My best friend doesn't tell me anything sexual about her relationship with him so I don't think she would want anyone else finding out about it. I found out through one of my good friends on the football team. How do I tell her without starting drama between my friend on the football team and her boyfriend? or my best friend and her boyfriend? I just want her to know what's going on. Thanks!

Answer 1

Because he don't really care about his gf, what he displays as affection towards her is lust. She needs to dump him. A person who has any respect for the one they love, doesn't share what they do behind closed doors.

Answer 2

I would ask your friend on the team if he is being rude or disrespectful about it, or if he's just an "open book" kind of person.  If it's rude or derogatory toward her, then yes, she needs to know.  But if it isn't, then maybe you should just stay out of it, for the sake of not having to deal with the mess telling her will cause.

Answer 3

Guys his age only care about one thing. s*x. Some people might get upset at that comment, but it's true. All of you have so much more time left to live and so many other people to date. Your friend is being made a fool. If her bf really cared about her, he would keep the details of their private life just that, private. She needs to kick him to the curb like beckham! And make sure you're there for her to cry on.