My best friend's sister needs help!!!!?

Question

it's not like the secret life. lol, bens nice, ricky's the jerk haha even though ben's a little stalkerish. but back to the problem.

i know it's a little selfish, but i feel kinda embarresed that she's living with us. i mean, people make fun of her enough but they're like, 'why can't her parents take responsibility for their daughter' and stuff...so yeah...

the question is, what will happen to her future? she is a very smart girl, but obviously not with this. she was going to go to school to be in retail...

Answer 1

aww good luckk to her with the baby ; as long as you &+ her sister continue to be her support system then she should be fine ; &+ i think she/you/or her sister should tell everybody thats talking c**p about her to fck off ; they wouldn't want anybody judging them if they were pregnant but once again good luckk

Answer 2

Well honey, all I got to say is it's not the end of the world for her.  Lots of teens go through this.  If she feels she can't be a mom and go through school at the same time, she should look into adoption.  Adoption does not make her a bad parent.  And if she doesn't want to give the baby up, you and your best friend can be  a good support system for her.  Medicaid, food stamps and public assistance are avialable too.  But one thing to keep in mind, raising a child by yourself makes it very hard and difficult when you don't have your ducks in a row.. ( Job, finiancial responsibilities)

If I were in her position as hard it would be, I'd give the baby up for adoption.  In my power there'd be no way I could do it by myself and put finiancial burdens on my parents and friends, yet also want to go to college later on...  

Answer 3

poor girl..well, you have to know, that it wasn't JUST her bf's fault..she had some part in this too, ABSOLUTELY KEEP THE BABY!! she's 15..she might want to look at adoption? and homeschooling? i'm praying for her!! and you!

Answer 4

wow sounds like The Secret Life of the American Teen

Answer 5

sweetheart i want to help but what is the real question here. what do you need my help with?

Answer 6

the people who know about it and make fun of her need to stay out of it. It's none of their d**n business how or why she is living with you and your family. She should just stay wherever she feels most comfortable and try to not be stressed out. If she has support from someone who truly cares about her then she will be fine. She can always take classes online to get into retail, and she can even finish high school online if she wants to. maybe she should take some time out to relax and then go back to school next year. She already established the fact that she wants to keep it, now I think she should start looking for baby items and thinking about how to save money for when the baby arrives. Also, her boyfried or baby's father, I don't know if they're the same person, but they might just be a little nervous about what's happening. good luck.