My best friend and I like the same guy...help!?

Question

Ok...so one of my best friends (not the one that likes the same guy as me) met a group of guys at a party and I really liked one of them. Later that night my friend (still not the one who like the guy) and I decided to introduce the guys to my other friend (you guessed it...this is the one) and I told her that I like the guy. That whole night she kept flirting with him and telling me how much she liked him. She said that we will just have to wait and see. We were hanging out with the guys the next day and she was still acting the same way. I don't want this to come between us but this has happened before and I'm tired of her walking all over me for a guy. She has had so many boyfriends and I haven't even liked a guy for so long. Don't you think she should let me have him? Oh yeah and she broke up with her current boyfriend right after we met the guys. What should I do? What should I say to her. How do I "win" (I hate that this has to be a competition!) please help I cant stop thinking about this guy that I've liked for about two weeks I've NEVER felt this way before after only two weeks. :) thanks...

Answer 1

if you tow are not careful he will just use the two of you and he Will be on his way so just dump the cow let yo greedy friend have him. or you can ask him who he likes.

Answer 2

Maybe you need to look up what the word Friend means and check that she actually is one. Sorry but she sounds like she is either insanely jealous of you and has to prove she is prettier and more desirable than you, or she just has no idea how to be a friend. If she keeps doing this to you it sounds as if she is using you to make herself look better kinda like the pretty girl with the 'fat' friend (though i'm sure you are not that). Not sure how you can 'win' this, if it came down to personalities you would win, as noone would put up with a shallow person for long. but idon't know how old you are or anything. imo she is not a friend, you need a friend who doesn't compete. Good luck x

Answer 3

Oh my. I think that both of you should just give up on the guy. It will just lead to problem between your and your friend.

Or... have the guy pick, as long as your both willing to be the "loser" in this.

Answer 4

well you liked him first...so just tell her to give up. and then straightaway tell him you like him! straightaway or else she would take him away...good luck!

Answer 5

3 way