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My best friend and me are fighting--PLEASE help me!!!?

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me and my "best friend" are in this huge fight. see, shes dating an older guy (shes 14 and hes 17), and she told me he was scared to go to 3rd with her. i didnt say anything to anyone, and she just texted me accusing me that i told this guy that her boyfriend was scared to go to third with her. i honestly NEVER said anything, but she wont believe me cause the guy who told her that i said that is another one of her good friends. i dont know what to do.. i told her to call me cause she said shes on the phone. and no matter what i keep saying to her she wont listen. i need help. i dont wanna lose my best friend. she knows everything about me and i know everything about her. i am crying my eyes out. my boyfriends on the phone with me but he can only help so much, i mean hes a guy and doesnt know the half. he just says "@#$% her!!! you dont need her." but i do. do you guys have any advice at all? its really really really appreciated. thanks and have a good evening =[

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  1. she should so trust you i don't know any of my friends who cant trust me except one but i only hang out with her cause shes my friends best friend so ya!


  2. welcome to being a girl this is what we do and it hurts but if she is choosing some guy over you her best friend then that's not fair at all because there is no guaranty this guy will be around forever and you could be i would personally tell her that and if she gets mad then its really not worth it a friendship needs trust and if she doesn't trust then she isn't much of a friend at all!!

  3. she really should trust you... but make her feel kinda guilty and SWARE to her in person that you didnt do that.

  4. Princess, here is the good news, THIS TOO SHALL PASS. in other words, your crying your heart out over a friend who will forget about this guy in the near future and this problem you are having will soon be off in faded memories. I understand you are hurting right now but, I have been there with my girlfriends as well. trust me. this fight will soon be over. besides, always remember, the best friends are the ones who let you make mistakes and still love you even though your not perfect. Maybe you are the better friend to her and she will  be on the losing end. Good Luck!

  5. well i think instead of trying to get you 2 listen to her you should ignore her for a few weeks and in that time try to figure yourself out and if she trys to talk to you you should say that she deosn't respect you  enough and that you want to talk about it but your affraid to hurt her feelings and yours and if she trys to be your friend again make a list of how you want to be treated and eventually she will open up to you have faith in yourself hun and try to think of how much you want from her but if she deosn't talk to ya then move on go shopping get yourself something nice with your boyfriend and other friends and get her OFF YOUR MIND!!!!!! because a true friend would try to work things out  thats what i would do Good Luck Hun and don't sweat it this happens allot Bye  

  6. say if you are my bestfriend you can trust me i never told anyone about this and if she doesnt believe you say thats all i can do i can't make you believe me .. she may come around. or to stay safe keep telling her you didnt say it and wait til she forgives you

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