My best friend has a crush on my brother?

Question

Well on of my best mates, who has been living in europe for a year, has come back home recently. When he got home he admitted to me that he was bi, which i kinda already expected, and at first i was alright with that. But tonight i had him and another of my close mates around for a few drinks and it ended up us asking each other about personal sexual secrets, which was fine for a while, but then he was asked by my other mate who he was attracted to and what his biggest fantasy was, turns out they both involve my older brother... This creeped me out... alot.

What should i do...? i do want to act like i dont agree with him being bi (which i dont) but yeah... i cant look at him the same way.

Answer 1

Aww babe x

I doo feel sorry for you, if u wanna chat add me On [e-mail]

I would tell them you dont agree with them liking your brother try 2 avoid them being close to your brother and also Try nt 2 be with them on your own if u can help it. u never no what they mite do.

loves x*x

hope i helped xx

Answer 2

First off how old are you?  How old is this friend who's just returned from europe?  How old is your close mate?  and lastly, how old is your brother?  

I ask these questions because I suspect all of you will be of an age that is classed as adult .... As adults you should all be capable of having your own opinions, beliefs and personal lifestyles .... so what if your friend(s) fancy your brother? .... is your brother not old enough and big enough to handle himself?  If the answer is yes then there is a simple way of dealing with this .... TELL your friends you are not comfortable with them fancying and fantasising about your brother .....although you did ask for it - you were all happy to answer and tell personal secrets - I wonder how your friends think about your personal secrets?  Is it the fact that a bi guy fancies YOUR BROTHER?  Would you be so freaked out if it was anyone else? Someone you DIDN'T know?  Are they 'worried' and 'afraid' to be around you now? No? Then why are you worried and afraid to be around them? - it's not you they fancy - or is that the problem?  Anyway - tell your brother he has two admirers - tell him about the evening and what these guys said about him .... he has the right to know and decide how he wants to deal with it .... he may well be adult enough to smile, say he's flattered - but they don't 'do it' for him ... and ask you to politely tell them no thank you!  And if he doesn't ..... well he has the right to run his own life his own way - right? Where's the problem then?

Answer 3

sounds like u have a rly big conflictt...well why dont u like tlk 2 ure older bro nd tell him dha ure best friiend isz bi..nd 2 watch himself. Then try tlking 2 disz bi friend and get him bakq interested in gurls. take him 2 night clubs for gurls nd errithinqq..im srriee...this just nvr really entered my miind.