My best friend hates me. Help!?

Question

My best friend had a crush on this guy for AGES but she never told him because she's really shy. Then he asked me out (I said no) and it turns out he's fancied me for months. My best mate was really cut up and she won't speak to me now. She's blocked me on msn and everything- I can't talk to her at all.

Answer 1

Just ignore her she isn't worth it! got to admit she should be grateful that you said no!  

Answer 2

Maybe she is not your best friend.

Answer 3

Give her time.

tell her u not Interesting in him

why fall out over a boy??

friends comes 2nd

happened to my friend before

Answer 4

shes just upset right now, she'll get over it, she should anyway you did say no!!! beautiful name by the way

Answer 5

Well you di the right thing by saying no because you don't want the guy to come between the friendship.  You need to tell her to grow up and realize that you did say no.  She will eventually come around.  Don't beg her.  Just give her some time.  

Answer 6

that happened to only i was the girl whos feelins got hurt she wont talk to u for a while as her prides been hurt so give her some space not to much and then approach her. if she not interested just wait for her to come round.

Answer 7

You did the right thing on your part -- you said no. Your best friend is probably mad at him more than you, but she can only let out some of her anger on you. Just give her time. She will thank you one day for saying no. Nothing was your fault, it was his. She's just going through a tough time. Give her some space and she'll come around sooner or later.

Answer 8

when u finally get a chance to talk to her expain to her that u didnt ever lead him on or anything (but try not to sound cocky about it) and eventually shell come around.

Answer 9

Tell her you said no and didn't know he liked you. Try to make sure she knows there is nothing between you and her crush

Answer 10

it's not your fault at all hun - let her cool down then just explain to her and prove it isn't your fault - she just needs a bit of time and space to get bored of the idea of him and then she won't care so much.  

Answer 11

If shes your bf then you should know where she lives go to her house. She is just upset that he liked you and not her and talk to her about this. I was in her spot once with a friend. If i liked a guy then they liked her, it suxs. You need to have a face to face heart to heart.

Answer 12

i think shes being a bit harsh not talking to you but shes obviously really upset that the guy she fancied likes her best mate. but she needs to know that this isnt your fault. you didnt lead this guy on and yet your being punished for it. try and contact her in other ways write her a letter and tell her what you are feeling and how all this is upsetting you both. never let a guy come in between a friendship they just arnt worth it. hope that helps a bit good luck x*x

Answer 13

FACT; ITS NOT YOUR FAULT!!! you did the right thing and said no and stayed loyal to your best friend. Sounds like shes just looking for a fight! Txt her and Tell her that all you did was be a loyal friend and you would never do anything to hurt her cause its the last thing you would wana do. Also point out that you dont like this guy and its not worth rising friendship over a boy! :)

Answer 14

It is difficult to state your best friend. This is a deep, provocative , psychological word. This word has deep meaning. Too me, it is what one called a person who is there for you all the time. There are what one might consider fair weather friends.As long as you can do do something for a person, he or she is there. When you need a person to lean on for support, they are not there. I think you need to re-evaluate what your definition of a friend is. I think she did you a favor to block all conversation with you.AT times, each party has to give in to keep the relationship.If she can get angry and not talk or even have contact with you for something that you could not have foreseen, what would she do if something that was really earth shaking?

Answer 15

Just give her sometime to cool off. If she really is your bestfriend, she would realize that your friendship is not worth destroying over a guy. Good friends are hard to come by now. I'm sure somewhere down the road, both of you will look back on this and just laugh it off :)

Answer 16

its not your fault he likes you,your friends a wee bit immature for ignoring you because of that. but well done to you for realising your friendship with her is more important and saying no to him!

You mate is hurting bad but give her time and she will calm down and you two will be as close as ever.Explain to her you would never do something to hurt her and help her to find a new guy to move on to!:)