My best friend is after EVERY guy I'm interested in!!!?

Question

She "fell in love" with my best friend... He didn't like her, she was HEARTBROKEN! Yesterday, I tried to get to know a really nice guy, and today... she tells me that she likes him..!

I have no idea what to say to her! I mean... I don't wanna lose her, she's a good friend... but I can't take this! Help???

Answer 1

unfortnately that seems to come along with some girls.  it is insecurity.  The friend is worried you may end up with a boyfriend and she will not.  Growing up I had a friend like that, I could have written just what you did.  I just telling her when I liked a guy.   When she questioned why I hadn't told her who I like I told her I'm keeping it to my self.  Eventually she stopped.  When I got my first bf she tried to hone it and couldn't he didn't like her, she got mad at me then I told her real friends don't try to steal a friend's boy friend.  She was politely shamed.  She sulked a few days then came out of it.

Answer 2

If she's a good friend, why would she do something like that..

Maybe the next time you spot someone you like, you might try to keep it a secret...

Bestfriends share the same interest, so that's the reason why the guys you like are also her type...

I've experienced that before, maybe she got to like each guy that i myself like because we talk so much about it.  I seek her opinion about this and that...That maybe made her think of him a lot more too...