My best friend is being a total jerk but i dont know what to do?

Question

ok so im 14, a girl, and my best friend is a guy. hes been my best friend for oveer two years, but last year he got a girlfriend and completely changed. i fought with him all the time and told him what was up, and he pretty much went back to normal. this summer i didnt see him cuz we were both out of state, and him and his gf broke up. so far he has told me we were gonna hang out and blown me off to go with our other friends and treated me like i was completely stupid. i dont know what i would do without him in my life, but i dont know if i can stand him anymore. i just dont know if he needs another chance. any help?

Answer 1

He's probably being a jerk because he's hurting over his breakup with his girlfriend and probably wants to be alone right now and hang out with the guys. Try to talk to him about how you feel or give him some time to figure things out. If he continues to be a jerk then stop contacting him and maybe he'll miss you and realize what a big mistake he made because he's losing his best friend. Or maybe he likes you and is confused which is why he's avoiding you.

Answer 2

People change a lot at that age.  Maybe you're just growing apart.  If he wants to hang out with you then okay, if not just find other people to hang with.

Answer 3

well if ur friend is beingg a  jerk u shouldn'tt stay quiet cause re-alllFriend tell's that person the truth!!! and if he did blow u off well no more chances cause when a guy  agree's to hang out with a girl  dont  just blow them like if we were tuises that they use us and then they throw us away that's my anwser!!!

Answer 4

Well, maybe he thought you were jealous...apologize, both of you...he's been a little mean, and so have you...start all over and talk to him about how it felt...let it all out and just be yourselfs... Who knows, maybe you'll end up bf gf...Hope this helps!

Answer 5

Geez, he's a jerk, I tell you.  Try talking to him of how you feel about him (I am sure that you are very angry and sad at the same time).  If he is still being unpleasant after you talked to him, then, don't be his friend anymore because he is not worth of your time.

Answer 6

first you have to know!

that you seem like a very nice gal! and you shouldnt ever doubt if u could make it without him in ur life! OFCOURSE U WILL! but what you are going to do or choose to do is not based on that at all!

u obviously feel like he deserves another chance! give it to him! and explain ur thoughts to him! tell him how u felt that he changed and then went back then back again! and everythin!

the key to talking with ppl! is to use the words "i feel"

jst like

i felt that you changed

instead of

you changed

it makes a big difference!

trust me and gauranteed!

goodluck!