My best friend is changing too much...?

Question

My friend goes to sleepaway camp in pennsylvania every summer and it seems like a really good camp. we were on the same soccer team since 1st grade and now we r going into high school. we arent really the girly gilry type but not tom boy at all. kind of in the middle but more sporty. when she camp back she got all girly and now i feel like we have nothing in common at all. should i have some space form her so i dont change too?

Answer 1

It's okay to be friends with someone who is not exactly like you.  But then again, if you feel she's changed too much to your liking then I wouldn't have considered you best friends.

Answer 2

I'd still keep her as a friend but also try and make some new friends with your same interest. She may like being girly better.

Answer 3

this has not really happened to me but i really love giving advice so i'll try my best..i think she is just maybe wanting to change or try new things since you guys are goign to a whole new school.im going to highschool too and i am pretty scared but really excited for the new changes.i think you should really just talk to her, dont make her pressured or anything.if she wants to change, try new things, experience stuff, then i highly think you should not get in the way of that.it will just make her feel like she's still in junior high and she's not. so let her try new things and maybe you should call up one of your other friends and start hanging out with them.i know,it's gonna be hard for you guys but people usually come around and if you guys have had a past, i know she will come back.just dont let her go.dont make a mistake you will regret.i think this is what you should do: call her, ask her whats going on between you guys, talk about how YOU feel, and then if she says she was going through a phase well then there you have it.phases while going into highschool are 100% normal.just don't stop being friends with her cause of that.i hope i helped a little.just do what your heart tells you :D