My best friend is in an abusive relationship, how can I get her outta it.

Question

to make story short, I have this really pretty Colombian friend who started dating a German guy.

Everything went sweet until she moved to Europe with him and is when her personal h**l started.

For once we were talking on the phone and I heard accidentaly how he was calling her a useless moron because she cooked rice

apparently he doesnt like rice but she loves it, so she cooked rice just she could eat it and he apparently didnt approve of it, so he slapped her in the face.

She says she loves him but is BS, he is just a littl hitler like I call him.....

Answer 1

dont tell her about the abuse, or try to talk her into

rather help her realize that she is pretty and she is worth it and valuable...... help her gain her self steem back and once she has it, she will realize that she can do better and send the german loser to h**l.

Answer 2

Tell someone talk to someone before it gets worse you will never forgive yourself if you knew and didn't at least try to do anything.

Answer 3

no one can... but only she... so yes be her a support make her believe there are other who love her(you) and her family and she is worth better treatment...  make her believe she is not alone... thats all you can do....

Answer 4

you gotta talk to her or let police know or let someone know who can do something. thats so wrong. imagine the other stufff he could be doing while ur not on the phone.. do smething before u regret not !

Answer 5

You can't get her out of it. The only person who can is your friend herself.  If she is willing to put up with being abused, that is her choice and you can't do anything about it.