My best friend is jealous of my boyfriend and I! What to do?

Question

My 2 other best friends have pointed out to me that one of our other best friends is jealous of my boyfriend and I (We have been dating for over a year). They also informed me that she had told them she is jealous of my relationship. with my boyfriend. She has said to them that it makes her "nervous to look at us". {Sidebar:We're not the touchy-feely, PDA kind of couple, I mean - we give little pecks here and there when out with a group, but nothing disgusting.} My boyfriend also pointed out to me the other day that he can tell she is jealous of us b/c of the little comments she makes when we're together. (The kind of comments that she would say as jokes but deep down she's dead serious). I have to admit, my boyfriend and I do have an amazing relationship, but we're DEFINITELY not perfect. She is a good friend, but what do I do? Is there something I have to look out for? I mean, she is my best friend, why can't she just be happy instead of jealous? I never even noticed her jealousy until everyone pointed it out to me.

Help!

xox

Answer 1

This is something you need to talk to her about.

Just you and her say...

Look, i know your not to comfortable with me and blah...but i really like him and he makes me happy so can you accept that and accept us?"

If she cant then you have to review the situation and think does she really care about me or is she interested in herself.

Is she jelous of your having a boyfriend or does she like your boyfriend?

If shes jelous of you having one try and find her one?

Give her a hand.

If she likes your boyfriend then you need to tell her to suck it up and get over it because hes into you and even if you did break up he wouldnt exactly go for her anyway!!!!

Answer 2

what you gotta do, what you gotta do.. Try chatting with her and ask her what's the matter and what will make her happy..

Because sooner or later she is gonna snap big time

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Answer 3

Talk to her. She may have other problems outside of that and find it hard to keep up with someone she admires. If she's jealous then let her get on with it... it'll soon pass over but just talk it out to her =]  

Answer 4

I know someone who had that problem...turns out she was g*y and actually in love with her best friend who was happily engaged to a wonderful man! Yeah their friendship didn't do to well after that. So maybe she's in love with you.  

Answer 5

SiT DOWN AND TALK 2 HER AND ASK HER WHY SHE iS SO JEALOUS!!!

Answer 6

Please get rid of that so called "friend".  She will ruin your life just because she's not happy.  I hate people like that.  If that man is treating you good and you're happy, a real friend will support you and be happy too!!