My best friend is so pretty, and everytime i get close to a boy he falls for her. this is breaking my heart.?

Question

im not pretty like her but im not ugly either, so why do they fall for her? how can i get someone to like me instead? i was getting reaaal close to a boy atlately, but then he went and admitted to her about his undying love for her :( she doesnt even know him as well as me

Answer 1

Maybe it is her personality. Ever notice how people portray a message to you before you even meet them? Everyone's is different. I personally do not know you, so I can't help you there. Beauty does help at certain relationships, but the best of relationships are made with great personalities. Without even knowing her, maybe the message she sends out to them is enough. You don't have to be pretty like her to get close to those boys. I can't really give much more of an answer than this, I am sorry. Just a little explanation as to why, I am assuming you will find this as.

Answer 2

First off Jasmine- that sucks!  I know the feeling too.  A few females I have been interested in over the years always feel for my brother instead.  What you have to realise is this dudette.  First, you can't get someone to like you.  They either like you or they don't- that is the harsh reality.  But, trust me Jasmine, your time will come.  You will meet a guy that only has eyes for you.  I wish I could tell you when it will happen, but it will and when it does, it will make you forget about all else.

It just sucks in the meantime but remember- it is not you.  Don't ever think it's because of you.  We all have different tastes.  We are all looking for something- someone different.  Someone is looking for you and they will find you.  So hang in there, okay :)  True happiness does await you- and the guy will be blind to everyone else but you.

Answer 3

Hm, maybe you can kill her.

Answer 4

Meet the guys who like you for your personality, not just based on looks.

Answer 5

I guess you should get uglier friends or try becoming more attractive yourself:)