My best friend is stuck up...?

Question

Well i use the word best friend loosely atm to be honest.

You know like every girl usualy has one best friend and then a group of close friends.

Well...same for me.

Excep my best friend annoys me at the moment.

Shes really stuck up because she thinks her family are better off?

And shes always sorta rubbing it in my face.

Then shes thinks she better than me in the fact that she always tells me before auditions for a school show that shes going to get the lead role not me.

And i got it last year. :D WOOP

but shes doing it again.

And everything i say it seems she puts me down.

Like whenever i say something she'll say...erm no....

Ive noticed it before but like loads recently.

Especially since i went down the park with some lads the other day.

they were like why do you let her say stuff like that.

I honestly dont know why i do.

I much prefer hanging round with the lads down the park than having to trawl into town every day with her to go shopping.

I mean dont get me wrong I LOVE SHOPPING more than anyboyd.

But not with her.

I kinda wanna tell her but i know she will tell me im being stupid and paranoid.

What should i do about her...

Answer 1

Right it's time for you to stick up to her ! when she says a thing like " erm... no " just say to her

" why do you say that to me ? like erm..no and stuff like that because i havn't done anything to you "

if she end up falling out with you about it then she is obviously not a good friend and she won't be worth being friends with.

i'm sure you'd be happy if you we're with the lads :)

If others notice such as the lads saying why do you let her say that then everybody will notice and not like that your not sticking up for yourself ask one of your other friends if they would come with you when your asking her why she's quite mean to you.

im sure if other friends notice then she might stop!

Hope this helps and good luck :)

Answer 2

Confucius says... Indeed! your 'best friend' sounds stuck up. Although, you are partly the cause of this, for letting it get this far. Your friend has realised that she could walk all over you, without worrying about putting the friendship in jeopardy! Depending on whether you want to rebuild your relationship with her or not, i recommend that you should confront her and be honest about how much her attitude is annoying you. You should not be concerned about the comments made upon, rather be concern about who made the comments!

Wise confucius is always honest and right!

Answer 3

I think you have answered your question. What you do if you don't like something? You don't do it. So the answer is very simple but that this simple thing of telling her would take a lot of courage. It would even take a lot more courage to stay to your point once you have told her.

So ease it out here is what you should do... Reduce the amount of time you spend with her. Like from hours to mins and weeks to days etc... She would ask you whats happened to you and then you should tell her that you don't like her pushy attitude and you are more miserable with her. Drop her an email or over coffee tell her what you have made more friends and you would be busy with them and slowly cut down your ties.